Lifestyle tips

So I've been an off and on feedee for probably... 5 years now? I really love my weight and curves and I'm currently trying to work out a little to help with some of my back pains. I'm at a point where I'm comfortable at my weight (250 @ 5'4" and I agreed with my hubby that I wouldn't gain past that since he isn't into feederism/BBWs as much as me.

I used to post pics like after stuffings and just fun fatty pics for the encouragement and love but there was always a big chunk of people saying to go bigger. So I would ignore it at first and then just close up shop or stop sharing. Now I'm at a point where I wanna share again and want extra encouragement to do big stuffings but don't want to fall in the bad loop of feeling pressured and hide again. Any advice?

If you find it fun to share, then do so. 😁 Also know that this "get bigger" response is going to come with it, as it's a part of the culture on this website. When it happens, smile while you mentally pat the commenters on the head, and stick to how YOU want to live your life. I hope you can have fun, and not feel pressured by what is common "encouragement" around here. If you say you're not gaining more and others don't respect that, they are the asshole and you have every right to push them away, or ignore them.

All the best to you. 😁

Thankly the encouragement here is wonderful! It is other sites that have the more aggressive type! But I thank you for your words

LilKittyNub:
Thankly the encouragement here is wonderful! It is other sites that have the more aggressive type! But I thank you for your words [/quote]

Ah, I see. Unmoderated places like Twitter (for example) can get out of control and more aggressive. Lemme at 'em! LOL! I'll help you tell them to back off!! 😁