Fat boy2020:
So it's my dream to be immobile and I'm working my way to that the only thing is is that everyone around me like my family and friends and well not outright telling me to exercise but going aboit getting that point a cross without upsetting me kinda of a way, and I'm starting to feel a bit discouraged and I'm not sure what to do
If you're at the stage where others opinions, thoughts or status has that much power over you, that dream will need to be put on hold.
Having your own, living apart, buying your own food, clothing, choosing your own primary care physicians etc.
If you're in a family/group of friends that's tight-knit, very active while you're can't deal with possible isolation...that will be hard.
Budget and build your muscles/mobility, plan and research/network now as it won't be cute later on..to depend on the same family/friends who told you to exercise before, as they yell or be verbally abusive to you about not getting WLS later while they take care of your needs.