General

I don’t get much activity on my profile, certainly less then I hoped. Many times I have sent out messages just trying to start a conversation and I get nothing back. I don’t do any of the things that people mention you shouldn’t do I try to be polite, and I just want to talk. If it leads to something more, that’s great, but I don’t expect anything. A response would be great though.

No.

I seem to do alright.

It's not great but...all of those guys buying the drinks, that drink is usually just water.

You just need to know what to do.

You're looking at it the wrong way. You need to improve yourself first. Confidence, man. All those guys rushing up are doing it because they are terrified they'll get left behind or forgotten.

Just be yourself and chill. if they talk to you, fine. If not, cool.

Get a hobby. Be interesting. Have goals, ambition.

To be wanted you need to have a reason for people to want you.

Be the signal light, don't be the bug.

Many men seem to be visiting on my profile. I'm not interested on men on dating aspect. I don't mind that they are visiting my profile.

I don't get messages from other users either.

Many people are not here to date.

Personally, if I'm clicking through to your profile, it's just to see who's in our community, and I find all the countries people are from really cool. That means I'm not "checking you out." I'm happily taken. 😁

I enjoy the community of like-minded folks, making friends (for realz 😜), and learning more as a Feedee each time I come back.

Exactly. And where’s the best 24/7 available place to learn more about a given member and (maybe) find out why they’re on FF? Their profile!😀



That’s what helps make us a stronger community: better awareness of the diversity of us and what we each bring/are about.

As a date-available person, i may be looking at a particular profile for that reason, though far, far more often it’s simply to get to better know a member, or check up on what a longer-time member wants to express in their profile.

Many reasons for members to view profiles. Dangerous to read motives into profile views.

I love talking to people and would love to get to know people which is why I fully filled out my profile and also verified my account. However, as much as I enjoy feedism I don’t want to talk about it 24/7.

In my opinion, a lot of people on here think that just because we are both into feedism,that’s enough to chat and meet up and that’s it.

Some people may just be into that but not me.

I’m much more likely to meet up with someone / have long more enjoyable conversations with people who takes an active effort in reading my profile and messages me about related topics etc.

I’ve been here for a looooong time. I’m talking well over 10 years. Ive closed my account and opened a new one many times. Doesn’t matter what my profile looks like. Or how much time I spend in the forum. Or what my DM says. No matter what, 99% of my messages are completely ignored. It used to be because there just weren’t many females on this site, compared to men. So the females were spoiled for choice.
But nowadays the biggest problem is that many females are here for money and frequenting FA sites is a part time job for them. They aren’t interested in chatting. If they don’t reply, it probably means they already have a mark they are pursuing.

As a female feeder, I agree we’re definitely are the minority for sure. At the same time, holy shit we are bombarded with messages from horny mfs time and time again. Literally, my profile makes it pretty f**king clear I don’t do irl feedings.


It’s a plethora of reasons, such as lacking the funds to actually feed someone, not having the time while in school, men being literally twice my age most the time, and running the risk of being assaulted or murdered if we ever do decide to meet up. Of course these are personal reasons, but I bet these are also the main issues for others as well. Not to mention my fantasies are dark and should stay as fantasies.

I also think a lot of us are closeted. I think it’s a lot more common than you would think, because someone I’m really close with disclosed her feeder fetish just a couple months ago (we’ve know each other for years). Tie that in with super condescending, entitled, and rich parents, I know for fact she will never “come out” as one or probably even act on it outside of sites like these (which I think she’s too afraid of even making an account).

I only surfed this site before making an account that lasted for only around a couple of months or so (deleted after close call with parents and I was a minor back in 2017)… Even now I’m terrified someone I know will find this account and blackmail me. Only my brother and mom knows about my “preferences” (and this is vague at best) and it will probably stay that way. There’s no way the rest of my family will completely approve of me dating a “fat guy” or keep themselves from making remarks. I’m sure they would only keep more quiet about me dating a “fat girl” because they don’t want to appear “biphobic.”