General

Jealousy.

Man,

So I had a crush on this one chick, right? Then I found out she was married, so I backed off. Then I ended becoming cool with her husband. Only to find out they were poly! And get this, the only reason I found out is when his wife tried to kiss me right in front of him and he stuck his hand out to dap me up. 🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾

It’s very important to maintain communication with all your partners and ensure you all know your needs.

It also means more likely for heart break and you don’t want break ups to affect your other relationships.

However, I find being polyamorous very rewarding. I get to spend time with some wonderful people. I don’t expect one partner to be able to fulfil all of my needs.

For me, I am after long term romantic relationships and I am excited at the thought that I get to fall in love with multiple people, however I understand that not everyone wants this with multiple people.

I know when I wasn’t honest about it, I felt like I was missing something and I felt so relieved when I could be honest about it with my husband.

Relationships take a lot of work and need good communication from everyone involved. The only difference is, you are with multiple people