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Aww this is such a difficult one. 18 years ago, I lived in hotels as part of my job. I should have started my gain then, but I didn't. It is a regret I still have. I'm big now, not as big as I'd like, but at the balance point between my busy job/career and becoming the huge person I so want to be. It's not easy, but at the moment at least I can indulge in being fat and still have my job!

I feel totally identified. At 100kg I was diagnosed with diabetes, I lost 25 kg and the diabetes disappeared. Now I try to eat healthier, but wanting to regain my weight. In my experience, you have to find the balance between satisfying your sexual desire to gain weight, and your health

I can never seem decide which way I'm going. The results, therefore, are back and forth.

More of a foodie than a feedee. Due to medical issues I had to lose weight starting in 2020. It was a bizarre feeling losing and being so restrictive in my diet. I was never into sweets or chocolate so that didn’t bother me. Cut out all rice, bread, potatoes and pasta.
Lost the weight never hitting my goal weight however. Still a BMI that categorized me as obese. You couldn’t tell however. Started healing from major surgery and started gaining. Belly exploded in size. Still not eating those goods but I’m eating a lot more in quantity.
This gain was short lived. Cardiologist was beside himself. Back on strict diet having to lose again. My fantasies haven’t changed. Still wish I was north of 300. Love how my body feels when I’m so fat. But, the stress at this point is just too much. It will have to stay a fantasy. This site lets me indulge in reading about every bodies experiences. Living vicariously is going to be the way it has to be now.

You look great no matter what. Health comes first and I wish you the best of health and happiness.

So even when gaining with healthy foods your cardiovascular health suffered?

The unfortunate reality is that after a certain point, it's the weight of the fat itself causing the problem. We didn't evolve to carry that weight on our frames, so some people get health problems from the stress it places on the body. Of course, not everyone will have those issues, but it's still something to be aware of.

Never really been a feedee before, just a fat dude, but yeah...trying to drop some weight. Been having issues with my legs going slightly numb when I stand in one spot for an extended period. As a musician in a band, this is a bummer...don't really want to have to sit on a barstool while I play. It's tough though, I like food...a lot lol.

Ik ben wel helemaal klaar met dik zijn en ben flink afgevallen van 115 kg naar 89. Ik wandel en hardloop elke dag 10 km en gebruikte hormonen en daardoor was het afvallen een fluitje van een cent. Ik gebruikte eerste Spironolacton en daarna ging het beter met Androcur. Binnen 5 maanden was ik 26 kilo kwijt en de huisarts is bijzonder tevreden en door dit afvallen hoef ik de voorgeschreven pillen niet meer in te nemen.

In all seriousness while I haven't ever gotten to this point I can see two sides of the coin really a desire to be as fat as possible can be quite dangerous and for most people many would value their lives and well being over a fetish let alone a fantasy, not to mention for some individuals it may really end up being something else instead. But anyway back to what I was saying there is an important balance to have between responsibility and indulgindulging/ letting go for if one falls too far into one or the other their life can end up being hell, as once they go too far in one direction they become less free to do anything that they want. Things that are more often important than having another 10 or 50 pounds. It can be painful to make a sacrifice like that but in the end it usually is for the better since the goal can either be accomplished later or turns out to be something you didn't want in the first place.