My why has germinated over time from liking fat women to eventually liking fat on me more than anything else and I actually like some of the trade offs that comes with my weight gain.
SmokingSquish: My "why" is that I have always been bigger than average, and it was never seen as a good thing. Being here taught me that not only is it a good thing, but it is an accepted thing and I am not the only one. Came for the free chat, stayed for the community.
I always thought that fat girls were sexier. I love the curvy round softness and the variety of body shapes. There's just so much more to enjoy. As for me I got tired of trying to keep from gaining weight. No matter what I did I could never achieve my goals. So I gave up on that and I started filling out and I liked the softness. That's when I decided to get fat. I'm also attracted to men and over time I acquired a taste for the big boys to. In my opinion sex is better when both partners are fat.
MrWhite: I believe the reason why is because of my childhood. As a kid growing up with an abusive father, a lot of the affection that I received while I was young was from bigger people and in my head I began to associate fatness with love.
I can recall the time I got a hug from my math teacher in the 3rd grade. She was an incredibly big woman, at least 450lbs. It was like hugging a cloud and when she wrapped her fluffly arms around little kid me. Well I was changed forever lol