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I've actually been dealing with this since I discovered that I had a feedee kink. I'm poly and I live with two of my partners who are each other's primary partners, and I'm afraid to tell them because they might judge me. On one hand I want to share my fantasies with them, but on the other hand they both have a rough relationship with weight and food. I've told my other partner because he's more like a best friend to me and he's always understanding. But it's really scary knowing that because we share a phone they're bound to come across something I've looked at, and I know there's a possibility that they'd be disgusted by my interest in feederism and misunderstand what it's like for me.....anyway that was a big anxiety dump but I want you to know you're not alone in being afraid to come out. And whenever you decide to, you have this awesome community to support you!! Keep being you, keep being awesome, and above all do what makes you happy ❤️

I've been very much in the closet with my attraction to overweight people. My parents used to make fun of overweight people and talk shit. to the point im afraid to tell them im attracted to overweight women

I’m pretty sure that most of the people in my life have put together my attraction to fat women. In regards to feedism, that’s on a need to know basis.

I mean, I wouldn’t equate telling someone you have a weight gain/fat kink to “coming out” as while it’s uncommon, it’s not controversial or something everyone in your life will know or notice. It’s a small, secular detail to you that overall doesn’t really impact you daily on the scale that being gay, trans, or other things you “come out” for would be?
Either way, it’s not that big of a deal, share it or don’t. I personally don’t, but there’s no need worry if you do.