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Honestly, I don’t know what I’m doing right but I just get radio silence. I don’t assume anyone is a catfish until they won’t send me an audio message or video chat me. Like I message one female feeder or mutual gainer a day and I’m assuming the catfish ignore me. Please tell me you are messing with the guys doing that like people mess with e-mail scammers and telemarketing scammers.

You guys must be new...welcome to FF.

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Sure.

I have this problem on feabie

I've developed the mindset that EVERYONE is a catfish/hiding from their husband until proven otherwise.

Guilty until proven innocent instead of innocent until proven guilty. Works better that way.

I agree with BlackJack. I had maybe 2-3 of these messages over the past year, and I've had 5 in the last few days.

I get a lot of that stuff, especially on Feabie. Usually it's it's a pic of a hot young woman who's not even a bbw and a message saying "Hi". I'm 65 so I know what they want, but I'm surprised they don't make more of an effort.

Absolutely. Ever since FF and Feabie showed up on TV shows so people could make fun of those who were different again, these sites have been populated almost entirely by fake profiles. Shitty people found out they could abuse people's desire for a relationship to extort money. Funnnn.

Oh, I didn't notice the part in the OP about lesbianism. It's not just you. It happens to men every day. Because due to the actions of a few high-profile shitty men, we all deserve it I guess.

Men pretending to be women seeking out lesbians?
That doesn't seem to make sense.
I mean what good is it going to do him in the end, lesbians aren't interested in guys.

I see those shouts and posts and just don't pay any attention to them.
I get my share of guys wanting a hook up then when I call them out on it they get mad at me.
After all it says right in my profile I am not here for a hook up but then again most men never read a girls profile. lol