Fat experiences

Thank. You.

That's exactly it. I will have your offer in mind when I find myself with burning questions. Much appretiated.

Platonic feedism? Sign me up

yeah uh. Please do kindly see yourself out.

This was denfitively NOT the place for that.

Have a good day

I don't know if I can add more to this discussion that hasn't already been said, other than to say that I can relate to the feelings behind the original post.

I feel I come to this world from a "food is love" perspective. That's the way I was brought up: feeding someone is an act of love, just as allowing yourself to be fed is an act of love. While for me personally, a sexual component certainly did get imprinted at some point in my development, at its core there really is nothing expressly sexual about feedism aside from whatever an individual or individuals bring to it.

Food can certainly be very sensual: the touch, taste, textures and aromas, just like fat itself can be very sensual in the same kinds of ways. But the sexual association with these things are not a given (certainly not for most people in this world.) At the root of it, these things are basic human comforts. Connecting to someone through food and feeding, through touching and embracing - or cuddling as it were - these are ways of creating a sense of emotional and/or physical intimacy without being necessarily sexual.

That's exactly it. Like, I understand some cuddles and petting but when it comes to intercourse I just can't see it in any way.

I don't like, it, can't enjoy it, and honestly I would rather it would not be brought up in any discussion or relationship I have, especially related to this.

Thank you for sharing.

Honestly this is the way I feel it should be approached. There's a difference between a lifestyle, a fetish, and a kink, and people in a relationship need to be able to be on that same wavelength.

For me it is just a kink. A very fun one, and probably my most favorite, but by no means the only thing that gets me going. And I just don't want to do it all the time or all that often at all. It doesn't mean I don't have wild fantasies or activities I want to try out, I just... have other interests and kinks etc too!

Hi there, another asexual here! No sexual attraction, but I find bellies and fat very appealing. I fantasise about stuffing and weight gain, but I don't "get off" on any of it. I just like it! I'm not a feeder, but I can absolutely see the appeal and gentle intimacy and love in hand-feeding a partner, or cooking them a meal for them to enjoy.

I forgot where I was going with this. But I just wanted to say, you're not alone! There are more people out there who like this stuff kept to a PG rating, and that's totally cool.