Ooh I love this topic đ
1) the soft texture. The feel of a *really* soft, squishy tummy or other body part is unlike anything else in life. No doubt itâs the same reason lots of people in the ânormalâ world love boobs so much! And any person with a uterus simply NEEDS to try out the feeling of a chubby, soft belly on their vulva/clit because it is absolutely to die for, the gentle pressure combined with the way it conforms to what it touches.... I canât explain it beyond that. It drives me wild.
2) There is a certain âgross-outâ factor when you know how most people would react. Idk, this is some sort of contrarian instinct for me personally. Iâve always liked things that other people thought were weird, so on a subconscious level I suppose embracing a love of fat is just rubbing it in their faces or what have you. If I think about getting exhibitionist about it, I imagine some vanilla person watching me get freaky and their repulsion just fuels my fire. I guess itâs like âyou donât know what youâre missingâ.
Iâd say itâs one step removed from like... anyone not sexually active being disgusted by sex in general because of bodily fluids and how weird genitals look; from the perspective of someone whoâs accepted those âgrossâ things and move past them to enjoy sex, it feels like the non-sexual person is missing out on the fun.
3) Way more than anything else, for me the thought of actually watching a fat tummy get fatter drives me *up the wall*. Actually watching it grow, like a chubby version of watching the Hulk change? I guess itâs rooted in a certain love of transformation for me, that aspect of it thatâs literally fantasy. Cuz, outside of inflation/bloating, watching it change isnât really physically possible, but itâs so much fun to imagine. And you can kind of piece it together from watching someone gain over time.
For me, this part feels connected to the âtransformationâ of a penis as it gets aroused. Because what does it do? It swells! đ It enlarges, becomes engorged! It grows! It âtransformsâ. I know itâs a bit of a stretch but on some level there is a connection.
4) this doesnât apply to me, but Iâm positive fat-loving is an ancient part of the human brain. We spent millennia just surviving nature, and anyone who did so well enough to get fat would have been very impressive to those around them. Of course weâre evolved to see fat as desirable!
So you see? Everything feels rooted, deep down, in things ânormalâ people experience in sexuality. Itâs just one more step. Hope this is helpful. (WHOOPS THIS WAS A NOVEL.... oh well!)
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