LoraDayton:
I know exactly what he said very much thank you! There's no mistaking what sexual orientation is versus a kink they are not the same thing there is no overlap they are not a substitute for each other. And straight people, especially straight men, do not get to mansplain that to a bisexual woman especially a fat one. I know what I'm talking about more than you thanks!
Hey bi trans guy here. I think that calling feederism a sexual orientation is justified since all the fatphobic stigma that surrounds liking fat or liking being fat. The hardest part of my identity was to accept that I’m a feeder and feedee. Being trans made me think about suicide but this was a lot worse for me to accept. I feel it deserves to be recognized as an orientation due to how hard it is to accept yourself as being into fat and having that be visible. Also demisexual is categorized as a sexual orientation even though it has to operate with the gay, straight, and bi gender orientations to be present. This shows that we can categorize things that are dependent on gender attraction as sexual orientations. Being into feederism is a marginalized sexuality minority and needs to be treated as such.