Bigwideland:
Do the ladies want or go to BHM paid web sites. Do any BHM run them with any success? I have never seen any so think that BBW sites are just a male thing.
Sorry heading should be sites not sits, d'oh.
Someone once said to me that porn is for men. Erotica is for women. And while that isn't a hard and fast rule, most of the fat porn I've seen is with the male gaze (straight or gay) in mind.
The handle of BHMs I've seen that *are* straight mostly sitting/standing with their belly on display and eating/drinking. They don't really make a show of it either. And even then most of their audience is gay men.
Meanwhile, I've read a lot of erotica that's made for women, by women. Yes, guys will read it too, but a lot more women read erotica than watch porn. There really isn't porn made for straight women - fat kink or not.