HeyStranger17:
My boyfriend won’t admit that I’m getting pudgy and I tried to persuade him that acknowledging how fat I’m getting would be sexy to me, but he won’t believe me. I’m thinking of asking him to take me out for dinner so I can stuff myself silly and he will have to admit that I’m a porker. I wonder how many times it will take before he gives in…
My boyfriend won’t admit that I’m getting pudgy and I tried to persuade him that acknowledging how fat I’m getting would be sexy to me, but he won’t believe me. I’m thinking of asking him to take me out for dinner so I can stuff myself silly and he will have to admit that I’m a porker. I wonder how many times it will take before he gives in…
So, any man with more than two braincells to rub together isn't going to call his gf, fiance, or wife fat. Won't even suggest it. They are are train from childhood to never, ever say that to a woman.
Part of it is to be polite. The other part is that they are warned it's a trap. Heck, you're bf may have personally experienced it before. I've seen obviously fat women tear there SO a new one for even hinting that they are anything less than slim and trim.
If you want you bf to call you fat, you need patience. It's not unlike befriending an abused rescue animal.
2 years