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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Falcor:
As I mentioned here, I don't mind gaining or loosing weight, depending on my partners likes/dislikes.
My current partner (for some years) likes me fit, and when we met she was also pretty fit... As time went by, she gained quite a bit, but didn't do anything about it except complain (even though she knows I like her better this way) and kept gaining...
Any way, during our summer vacation, we gained some weight. Even though she gained more weight than I did, it made her tease me about it. For some reason, that made me gain more smiley to the point that I am now at my highest weight ever...
Now here comes the interesting part, last night she started caressing my belly and garbed my love handles, which made me wonder if she is enjoying my new fat layer... I am a bit confused now...
Should I gain more, start losing weight or do nothing?


Imma tell you what I tell everyone else.

Talk to your partner.
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Quiver   United States
Joined 4 years
Falcor:

Munchies:
Imma tell you what I tell everyone else.

Talk to your partner.


It is amazing how often this is the necessary advice on these forums here. OP, it doesn’t sound like you have anything to lose, just something else’s to connect with with your partner! Just use your head and if she doesn’t seem to reciprocate don’t press. But you ought to be able to express your sexual preferences to your partner
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HappyBigBelly   United States
Joined 12 years
Mutual belly play is so much fun :-)
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JumboJenny   United States
Joined 15 years
If it were me....i would be working my ass off losing weight so I could stuff her silly.
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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
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I am now back at my normal weight, along with my firm abs. While she keeps gaining, unintentionally.
A week ago she told me that she is jealous of how I am all fit and firm while she keeps on gaining (I think it has to do with her change of metabolism...). So I offered for us to workout together, and she gladly excepted my offer.
Since she is all out of shape, I suggested we start with a short walk.
To my pleasure I saw how she struggled to squeeze herself to her new tights. Ladies, why do you think you have to wear tights for a walk and not just any kind of pants? not that I care, on the contrary I love it!
I loved seeing her jiggle as we walked, however she didn't... She even mentioned that it bothered her to feel how she jiggled while we where walking! needless to say she didn't workout since...
What else can I do to make her feel good about her body?! While she knows I prefer her like this


From where I sit, I don't think your partner really knows what she wants. She complains about how unfit she is without doing anything about it. She also has some ... interesting ideas about gender rolls that I think are making it harder for her to decide what she wants. As such, there's only so much you can do.

She knows you find her attractive, and that's good. Keep making sure she knows how sexy you find her. But you also need to make sure she knows you will love her and find her attractive at any size.

You are already helping her get back in shape without pushing her one way or another. If you buy groceries or do the cooking, make sure there are healthy yet tasty options for her. But outside of that, she has to figure out what she wants for herself. You can't help her with that.
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