Evan9984:
Hey hey! I’m a feeder who’s exploring asexuality and finding myself relating to a lot of the criteria. Can anyone here relate? I’m only really into this kink and I’ve been feeling suffocated.
Munchies:
I'm not ace, but I just wanted to say you can indulge in kink apart from sexuality.
Of course, you can be ace and still enjoy sexual things. But kink doesn't need to be sexual at all. Having a kink doesn't make you any more or less ace.
Evan9984:
See the problem I’ve been having is that the kink is my only sexuality really. I know I’m ace in the sense that I don’t crave sex, but being horny just becomes me wanting to feed and I don’t know if I’ll ever be content with that
Being Ace means you don't experience sexual attraction. You may or may not want sex at all. It depends on your libido. And that has nothing to do with your sexuality at all.
And like I said, kink doesn't have to be attached to sexual attraction. I often practice kink without being horny at all. And I'm not looking to be horny when I am doing it like that. Just playing a game of sorts or indulging a hobby.
But for some people, kink is attached to sexual urges. That doesn't make you any more or less ace. It simply is.
Like you said, you are still exploring your acesexuality. And that's okay. There isn't one way to be ace. Just gotta play around with things and see what makes you happy.
Maybe you'll prefer to do it solo. Maybe you'll prefer to be fed by a friend or partner.
Maybe even both.
Only one way to find out.
