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What’s the ethical line here?

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MickRidem   Canada
Joined 7 years
Talk to her. 😁
Mention how proud you are of your kitchen/baking progress. Say that you don't want to feel like you're "pushing" this food at her, but loving how much she's enjoying your new skills.
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What’s the ethical line here?

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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
MickRidem:
Tal to her. 😁
Mention how proud you are of your kitchen/baking progress. Say that you don't want to feel like you're "pushing" this food at her, but loving how much she's enjoying your new skills.


Couldn't have said it better myself.
2 years

What’s the ethical line here?

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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
MickRidem:
Tal to her. 😁
Mention how proud you are of your kitchen/baking progress. Say that you don't want to feel like you're "pushing" this food at her, but loving how much she's enjoying your new skills.

Munchies:
Couldn't have said it better myself.

Milhause:
I think I’ve inadvertently done it a few times. I always float a recipe before trying it so I’m not just making food without request. I’ve told her she can always let me know if something tastes bad or if she doesn’t want me to make something. She’s said twice, “You can make anything you want and I’ll be your tester. You make it, I’ll eat it.”

I suppose it would be good to clarify for sure but it seems like she’s accepting the extra goodies without worry


Yeah, just clarify. You two seem to have a good relationship, so I wouldn't worry too much. Just say what MickRidem said (or something to that effect) and you'll be fine.
2 years

What’s the ethical line here?

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Gushloader   Italy
Joined 2 years
Its all the matter of balance. If you continue making the food, and she keeps eating the food, then the loop is closed and the flow continues.
If you are making the food, and she is not interested in your food, or if you are not making the food anymore, then the loop is broken.
Everything should have its natural beginning and possibly jnatural end.
Stay safe and never worry.
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AskDrFeeder   United States
Joined 16 years
I think you're right on the line--since she knows you want her fatter, she must know you're tempting her into getting fatter.

If she hasn't said anything about wanting to watch her weight or asked you not to make such fattening stuff, I think you're okay. But the day she does you have to respect that and quit tempting her or at least have a conversation about what she eats and what you cook and what your and her expectations are.
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Gushloader   Italy
Joined 2 years
Exactly. The problem would start if you wanted to secretly fatten her with stuff.
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Voluptuouslover   United States
Joined 17 years
Ther is perfect advice here, but I was just wondering if she has gained a decent amount since your baking?
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Animus   United States
Joined 4 years
Totally get where you’re coming from as I’m in a similar situation. There is a food freedom in the house and snacks are always restocked/overstocked in the house. She’s looking fuller for sure and I’m starting to gain back weight I had inadvertently lost.

I bring it up when she mentions how “chubby” she’s gotten. She knows I appreciate her gaining weight, but am not forcing it upon her.
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Lanigiroyos   Mexico
Joined 14 years
Just ask her how she feel that now is eating more and if she likes this too, comunication is the key for this, maybe she does not want to be huge but she can enjoy some weight gain and could be fun for both of you
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