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I’m only a few days in on my journey as a gain, and plan to gain several hundred pounds. I was wondering about the people that have been open about being a feedee. Can you tell me your story? When you opened up to your friends and family how did they take it? I’d like to be open about it, but another part of me isn’t sure it’s a good idea to share.

I've only really opened up to my best friend about being into feederism

At first she didn't really get it much, and was confused considering my back ground, used to be all about my fitness and such

But as times went on, she's really come to understand it and asked me about it, Even looked into it herself. And has helped me somewhat with my gaining, By brining me in junk foods, And other stuff like that (we live together)

It's pretty nice having someone to talk to about it irl, even if she herself isn't into it

Two of my siblings know, but only because we share everything. Some of my non-feedist friends know I am a feeder, but only because we have that kind relationship.

Everyone else? Never told them because it's frankly none of their business. The know I love cooking for people, that I prefer bigger guys, but not the fetish stuff.

No, I am actually scared about sharing it to anyone I know.

I am.

My friends, family & co-workers all know about it. I got nothing to hide or be ashamed of.

I tell anyone who asks or hints at it. I let them know that I am a proud fat pig.🐷

Not open about it, outside the community.

I am not open about my desire to be fat and gain more weight

I did explain to my mother that I was into feedism, it was an awkward conversation and while she didnt quite understand (due to health concerns for feedees), but I think she kinda let it go ultimately. My gf did ask about it as well early on (I put it on my dating profile), and we've had convos about it, and are comfortable in where we are with respect to it. Some of my close friends and family members know about it as well, and they have been very accepting about it.

A few of my friends know that my weight gain has been intentional, though I explain as finding fat bodies more attractive and simply wanting that for myself. It helps that I've always been very open about my preference for larger folk in general.

I did have to tell my mom that I'm getting fat on purpose after she gave me grief for it, which she wasn't thrilled about. I imagine I'll have to repeat myself when she inevitably comments on my weight again after I gain the next 40lbs