Gaining

I get horny when i think about gaining / actually putting on weight. why do i feel guilty?

I guess there is an element of guilt to the whole experience, if you allow yourself to feel it. Guilt for greedy eating, taking up more space and resources, and guilt for breaking things with newfound weight especially, seats cracking and beds bending.
Your enjoyment of eating and/or being fatter just needs to outweigh (heh) your reservations.
2 years

I get horny when i think about gaining / actually putting on weight. why do i feel guilty?

I don't have guilty feelings about it. But I do get aroused by just the thought of my belly getting bigger. Especially the thoughts about becoming massively obese. My belly becoming simply huge.šŸ–
1 year

I get horny when i think about gaining / actually putting on weight. why do i feel guilty?

When I first started gaining weight on purpose I felt guilty and was too concerned about what others thought about me. It didnā€™t help that I was living with my parents at the time, and they were a bit concerned about my health. I still feel a little guilty when I go to my endocrinologist office since my endo always tells me that I need to lose weight. I think I should maybe look into getting a new endocrinologist, but Iā€™m afraid any of them will say the same thing. (Iā€™m trans and I need to see a endo, I canā€™t drop that doctor easilyā€¦) After my appointments the guilt goes away though and I go back to gaining again. At the end of the day thereā€™s always going to be people judging you for being big, I say look past those people and do what makes you happy. Society cares too much about what other people do with their bodies and itā€™s annoying. Life is short, everyone should live the way they want as long as theyā€™re not hurting others.
1 year

I get horny when i think about gaining / actually putting on weight. why do i feel guilty?

I have guilt about my desires to gain weight and I hate it so much. I know deep down that I've always wanted to be fat since I was a kid and nothing can ever change it, and I'll never really feel happy until I'm obese. But when you're told all the time that weight gain in general is a shameful thing, it makes you hate yourself and feel like you're desires are so shameful and wrong. Thankfully I'm slowly starting to just stop caring and overcome the shame
1 year

I get horny when i think about gaining / actually putting on weight. why do i feel guilty?

FA1989:
Hi:

I have at fat fetish. That being said I enjoy being fat as well (weight 200. BMI 32 (class 1 obesity) and have a gaining fetish that I want to explore. Thinking about being morbidly obese (a BMI of 40, ideally above 41 or 42) and packing on the pounds makes me extremely horny. The only coniption I have is the guilt...

Any advice?


Depending on the guilt is it about you or yourself in relation to Others? I was publicly and socially embarrassed at being obese but it was all I wanted to be But now i am what I am maybe its a aging thing you loose your concerns. I think the guilt is conflicting feeling of what you want and the way you think the world will see you as unacceptable. Well the hell with unacceptable its will happen but that's on the world not you loose the guit and show the world some non conformance and diversity i say.
1 year

I get horny when i think about gaining / actually putting on weight. why do i feel guilty?

Morbidly A Beast:
I donā€™t feel guilty for my body and how I choose to eat, but part of me feels like I would be mortified if someone close to me found out I had a fat fetish, in particular, me getting fat on purpose.. I mean I wouldnā€™t be bothered hypothetically having a fat girlfriend or whatever, or even me being 500 poundsā€¦ just that itā€™s on purpose for some reason urks me. Maybe itā€™s irrational idk.

But I think you have nothing to be guilty of and for. Donā€™t ever feel guilty for your body.


I looked at this older thread and see the exact same thing as you here - I have never been embarrassed of having a Fat GF or my Wife and now even getting Fat myself - but the idea of someone knowing I was doing it on purpose is a little wild to think about and definitely would be so weird if anyone found out that I knew my real attentions. Thinking about it - even if my wife found out I was gaining on purpose would feel strange - I guess that is why I find it most arousing for her to tease me or scold me for getting fatter like it was accidental. Now, if her fattening me was discussed with bth of us- and it would feel more like she was fattening me without myself actually doing it totally intentionally to myself.

Weird I know!
1 year

I get horny when i think about gaining / actually putting on weight. why do i feel guilty?

AskDrFeeder:
In a fatphobic society it is assumed that no one wants to be fat--if you are fat you must be weak and undisciplined. So you feel guilty when you eat a lot because you've been taught that it's a sign of weakness, of failure.

If you can transcend these social taboos and accept that you love overeating and getting fat you'll be able to get fat without guilt. But that is not always easy.



Iā€™m scared cause I have this believe all my worth is at being skinny
Itā€™s like my only quality and the reason people are nice to me

So getting fat is just me giving up my life

But I want to be fat so bad
4 months

I get horny when i think about gaining / actually putting on weight. why do i feel guilty?

FA1989:
Hi:

I have at fat fetish. That being said I enjoy being fat as well (weight 200. BMI 32 (class 1 obesity) and have a gaining fetish that I want to explore. Thinking about being morbidly obese (a BMI of 40, ideally above 41 or 42) and packing on the pounds makes me extremely horny. The only coniption I have is the guilt...

Any advice?


The only reason why I feel guilt occassionally, is being self concious about how my weight gain affects others around me

I know what I am doing is for myself, it makes me happy, I am a strong believer in that people are masters of their own bodies

But my mind is an expert on overthinking things and it can easily spiral out into different forms of scenarios in my head, painting a picture of my weight being a centric problem for my relations with friends, family or even my relationship
4 months

I get horny when i think about gaining / actually putting on weight. why do i feel guilty?

Eveline Evergreen:
Iā€™m scared cause I have this believe all my worth is at being skinny
Itā€™s like my only quality and the reason people are nice to me

So getting fat is just me giving up my life

But I want to be fat so bad


It comes down to trust that the process of indulging and putting on weight, will be so personally satisfying that it easily offsets how other people's thoughts actually affect you. Like, they don't even become comparable. Which is a hard leap especially when the first pounds require your choice in doing it, but there's a good chance the social effect is more subtle than you expect, and your increase in self-confidence as you grow, just makes you not care about anyone noticing anyway.
4 months

I get horny when i think about gaining / actually putting on weight. why do i feel guilty?

AskDrFeeder:
In a fatphobic society it is assumed that no one wants to be fat--if you are fat you must be weak and undisciplined. So you feel guilty when you eat a lot because you've been taught that it's a sign of weakness, of failure.

If you can transcend these social taboos and accept that you love overeating and getting fat you'll be able to get fat without guilt. But that is not always easy.

Eveline Evergreen:
Iā€™m scared cause I have this believe all my worth is at being skinny
Itā€™s like my only quality and the reason people are nice to me

So getting fat is just me giving up my life

But I want to be fat so bad


It's rough. You might have to give up some of your old life, I don't know. Or you might find that people value you for other things than your slenderness. You won't know until you try gaining and see how they react.

Also note that you can build a new life. A feeder or gaining buddy or gaining buddies can help enormously.

And of course you can also try the Glutton's Pledge...some people find that useful in developing the proper gaining mindset and learning to transcend fatphobia.
4 months
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