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So I'm a big guy and have only been with 2 women, both we're big girls.
I've wanted to experience a fit lady but with my size, in sure she'd need a fat fetish to be with me.
I'm a clean guy. 6 foot 1, @470 pounds

There are tons of fit ladies with fat fetishes. I'm one such person (I do have a feedee, and I am not looking for another one).

However, I do want to make it clear that a fit woman doesn't need to have a fat fetish to be with a fat man.

Thanks for that. I guess in my experience I've always found that being a big guy was a turn off to any ladies who were not.
And I hate to even say it the way I did because I do love bigger ladies too, just that experience I've never had really drives me to find someone I can share that with. Even if it's only once

You don't need a fetish to find a fat person attractive. I think a lot of people forget that, but it's true. There are plenty of fat guys out there in happy relationships.

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