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I find girls and their bellies so much prettier and cuter than guys. If it was my choice, any day I will always choose to rub a girls belly or be a girl with a belly over a guys belly. However, since I’m stuck being a guy, I can’t help but feel sucky when I see myself with a belly, like I love bellies and I want to like how I look with a belly, but I’m a guy and I don’t like guys bodies as much as girls. Is there a different perspective or a way I could look at myself or see myself differently I guess to motivate me to like how I look with a belly?

I completely understand. I gained around 10 pounds and felt horrible bc it all went to my hips and made me dysphoric. Yet I was so confused I wanted to be fat and chubby. Yet I realized that I felt I looked better slimmer bc I wanted to look more masculine. I am female to nonbinary trans. I completely understand being scared to get fat bc you don’t want where it goes to make you dysphoric. I am on a micro dose of testosterone now and am planning to try gaining again. I hate being skinny. I JUST WANT FAT FLABS DAMN IT!