Lifestyle tips

i am a feeder and love supporting the lovely weight gain. She is a good friend and after 3 years suporting she asked me to gain too.
It surprised me and then i looked at me and was even more surprised that i obviously gained. So it was a quick process to open up about it and accepting that i actually like a round figure. So i have opened up to her and to this community.
Not sure if i inform anyone else.

You don't need to tell people about the sexual part of it. That's none of their business. And anyway, almost everyone has a private kink or two.

Go with the PG version.

Feedees can say: "I find I'm happier if I eat what I want."

Feeders can say: "Oh, [my feedee is] happier if she eats what she wants. So I don't bother her about it."

Now, if you're an Fat Admirer (most feeders are) it may become obvious to people that you're an FA, since you usually date fat people. But you don't have to get into it. If someone asks if you're an FA, you can just say something like "Oh, I don't care about people's weight. It's their character that matters."

Aw, you’re always accepted here :-) You’re quite beautiful!

These days I'm all about avoiding drama/ heavy topics/ sharing too much information
I've been through that phase, and I've also had quite a dozen "coming out" conversations before
But it gets to a point where it's just tiring. Like what's point of sharing details about my sexual life to people I have no intention of inviting into.
Call me pragmatic, but I can see no logic in that
Thankfully I'm also happen to assexual, which I find to be a much easier topic to disclose if the conversation ever comes up
Although it ain't the whole truth, it isn't a lie either.
Now if someone were to ask specifically if I had any kinks, maybe I'd disclose it to them, if I found them to be trustworthy

My friends and family all know my preference is bigger girls but only my close friends know I'm a feeder .

When mentioning I preferred bigger girls to my friends I was straight up asked if I was a feeder and I didn't really feel the need to hide it so I said yes .
My friends showed no judgment and were actually quite supportive and intrigued about the whole thing .

I'm a pretty open book so if someone were to ask me about my kinks or it was a relevant topic I'd tell them , other then that I keep it to my self .

I do feel like it might be a bit easy for a feeder to be open about this since they aren't the ones gaining weight .