Marea:
Hello, here is my experience!
I have always been thin until I turned 28, I had a period with a lot of depression and anxiety and I started to gain a lot of weight, reaching almost twice my weight until then, in less than two years. Between depression and my great physical change I became a very insecure person, closing myself in myself and not wanting to see anyone, how hurtful can be a simple joking comment of "hey! you are fatter, or you should lose weight for your own good" when you feel that way.
I don't want to delve too much into this, even though I always had a predilection for chubby people, seeing myself so fat was not easy and it has been a whole process of maturing and acceptance with myself. Currently I have very contradictory moments where I see myself at ease with my figure and others where I don't, but I no longer give it so much importance and if I have a tasty hamburger in front of me, I eat it and enjoy it like no one else, accompanied by coke and lots of fries, please!
Getting fat is the same as not being attractive to the majority, society is not indulgent and the same happens if you say something against what the majority thinks, or if you do something wrong, but not for that reason I will stop being myself and defend what I believe in. Growing up is mostly about knowing yourself, learning to listen to yourself, so you can listen to others without prejudice, being yourself and enjoying life is what we have left, so right now I'm going for a walk to my favorite ice cream shop with my doggy and whoever doesn't like my curves, don't look!
Hello, here is my experience!
I have always been thin until I turned 28, I had a period with a lot of depression and anxiety and I started to gain a lot of weight, reaching almost twice my weight until then, in less than two years. Between depression and my great physical change I became a very insecure person, closing myself in myself and not wanting to see anyone, how hurtful can be a simple joking comment of "hey! you are fatter, or you should lose weight for your own good" when you feel that way.
I don't want to delve too much into this, even though I always had a predilection for chubby people, seeing myself so fat was not easy and it has been a whole process of maturing and acceptance with myself. Currently I have very contradictory moments where I see myself at ease with my figure and others where I don't, but I no longer give it so much importance and if I have a tasty hamburger in front of me, I eat it and enjoy it like no one else, accompanied by coke and lots of fries, please!
Getting fat is the same as not being attractive to the majority, society is not indulgent and the same happens if you say something against what the majority thinks, or if you do something wrong, but not for that reason I will stop being myself and defend what I believe in. Growing up is mostly about knowing yourself, learning to listen to yourself, so you can listen to others without prejudice, being yourself and enjoying life is what we have left, so right now I'm going for a walk to my favorite ice cream shop with my doggy and whoever doesn't like my curves, don't look!
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And know that you look gorgeous ☺️
2 years