0Seth0:So my sexual interests are being a feeder and I would like my girlfriend to gain weight. She's not into feederism. She knows I like to cook for her and give her food. And she always accepts it. It makes her happy, and it would make me happy if she would gain weight. I want to tell her I'd like for her to get fat, but I don't know how. I don't even know if it will ruin our relationship or not. Does anybody have any advice? Thank you

So, I’m gonna be real with you, this is not the place to ask this question nor is this appropriate to disclose with strangers. This is something you need to immediately speak to her about. It’s great she enjoys your cooking, but the joy you’re getting from it is fetishizing her and as you disclosed, she’s not into it. Discuss proper boundaries with her; as if you can’t keep your fetish out of the relationship and tie something as simple as making her happy with a good meal to it, then there’s some bigger issues going on that are for you to look into.