Gaining

Wanting to get fat, but also wanting to get in shape

Recently I've reached a point in my life where I don't care as much about the outside pressure (societal pressure, friends and family commenting, etc.) . But I am still conflicted about gaining. A part of me loves the idea of gaining weight and getting fat, but there's also a part of me that likes the idea of working out and getting in better shape (wouldn't be surprised if some of it has to do with body contrast with my 380 lb wife). I like the idea of both body contrast, and mutual gaining and I like the idea of getting in shape and getting fat (contradictory I know lol).

I was wondering if anyone else has been in a similar boat and if they had any thoughts on it?
1 year

Wanting to get fat, but also wanting to get in shape

I too experience conflict between wanting to be fit, strong, and to protect my health, and a continual desire to get really, really fat. This has led to a body that could reasonably be described as musclechub.
1 year

Wanting to get fat, but also wanting to get in shape

HanSelo:
I too experience conflict between wanting to be fit, strong, and to protect my health, and a continual desire to get really, really fat. This has led to a body that could reasonably be described as musclechub.


Muscle chub is a great body type in you can achieve it.
1 year

Wanting to get fat, but also wanting to get in shape

Flip a coin, heads or tales. Go with whatever wins, then let us know
1 year

Wanting to get fat, but also wanting to get in shape

Miachu:
Flip a coin, heads or tales. Go with whatever wins, then let us know


Watch the coin land perfectly balanced on the edge.
1 year

Wanting to get fat, but also wanting to get in shape

Contrast, but one partner is a ssbbw or ssbhm and the other is a sssbbw or a sssbhm smiley

But glad those barriers are coming down shouldn’t fell pressure from other people to stay one way if you wanna be another! You could enjoy yourself a dirty bulk but just make sure you don’t get lazy in your workouts!
1 year

Wanting to get fat, but also wanting to get in shape

I also am always conflicted about getting really fat and geting back in shape. So, I mostly gain moderate amounts (is 30-70 lbs moderate?) and then lose it... then gain and lose. Lately its harder to lose and easier to gain, though.
1 year

Wanting to get fat, but also wanting to get in shape

Person12670:
I also am always conflicted about getting really fat and geting back in shape. So, I mostly gain moderate amounts (is 30-70 lbs moderate?) and then lose it... then gain and lose. Lately its harder to lose and easier to gain, though.


You're in your 40s, so your metabolism is naturally slowing down. The yo-yo dieting doesn't help either. So, you'll need to make a decision before your body decides for you.
1 year

Wanting to get fat, but also wanting to get in shape

Miachu:
Flip a coin, heads or tales. Go with whatever wins, then let us know


Well I did the coin flip and it landed on get fat lol. Not doing this cause of the coin flip, but more so because I really had a lot of fun with a recent stuffing session on Friday. I think I'm going to do a test gain of 15-20 lbs and see how I feel from there.
1 year

Wanting to get fat, but also wanting to get in shape

I can definitely relate and the urge to gain comes and goes, but I noticed the baseline is getting higher everytime, especially with HC-cycles involved.

I‘m tall, always had that athletic V-shape and everytime I see changes, it scares me. So at some point I chicken out, diet a bit, only to wait for that gainer in me to get control again.

It‘s almost like two personalities struggling. The reasonable active one and the greedy pig. The latter even has fun sabotaging the former, and right now is giggling that the former will not able to hide his belly anymore after being done with another HC-cycle and probably be teased by friends and familiy.

But for real, it‘s the first time for me feeling some real squishiness in some parts and it‘s addicting!

As much as I dislike it sometimes for my looks in public, I really love it for my sexual self, which also translates to being confident.

I think, as a person having this kink/fetish, one should just try it, be heavy and lavish for some time and go back to a fit and active lifestyle if needed.
Just dreaming always leaves something to be desired.
1 year
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