Submission and domination

Looks over your shoulder….coping your notes.

Amazing, I want that definitely

It is really cool how so many people get off on this, it's not just us! (ˆ⌣ˆ)

It has been a year since I first posted about our experience with my fatboy's buried penis. He hasn't put on a lot of weight since then, but he is definitely a little heavier. His fupa has continued to get thicker and fuller, noticeably so.

Seeing him masturbate is the hottest thing now. He lies on his left side and has to reach around and under his big gut, and try to push back the pillow of his fupa to reach his penis. I've asked him not to stroke it, but just to caress the tip like I do when I give him head. I asked him because I wanted to see if we could train him to cum that way, and how that would change his responses. He was pretty good at following my direction. Now though I think he just fingers the head because it is too much work, or too uncomfortable, to reach around all his fat to get to the rest of his cock.

He can't really penetrate me anymore that way, it's just awkward to position everything. But I can still penetrate him, which is fun!
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I hope this series of posts has inspired others to try it - you don't have to be over 400 lbs, anyone with a penis can do it!

I can't believe I've missed the story of this topic until now. Very motivational, as this kind of result is something I don't just want to achieve, but am specifically driven by! Reaching the point where I'm physically unable to penetrate or even reach my penis is basically my ultimate goal because something about the extremity of it is incredible. Coupling that with the conditioning of not touching it like you have is even better, though I think it could be taken a step further - there are techniques to be able to train to orgasm without physical stimulation at all!

Well I am glad you found this thread now!
We've talked (and I've teased him) about his size and in particular his fupa as a form of chastity, which I think is something that is a submissive turn on for him.
When I met him, he had a small collection of chastity cages that eventually he got rid. They just don't fit and stay on him. He was already too fat for them when I met him, before he was buried down there.
But the idea of fat as chastity is definitely very sexy in some ways...

Happened to stumble across this. Very hot 🌋! As a fat man with a fat wife I can appreciate how my body has become more “feminine” over the years as I have gained weight. Although gaining weight has not made my wife more masculine, it has made our bodies more similar, almost like we are now a third gender “fat sexual”.

I am glad you found something in it that resonated with you!

Personally I have always associated softness and jiggly flesh with femininity, but I understand what you mean.

I think that androgyny is a better fit that "fat sexual", but that my own two cents.

That said, it's interesting how gaining weight encourages people to explore their gender. Think it's pretty neat.

That’s an interesting thought. It could have to do with fat kind of covering up some of the more obvious physical gender differences. A large fat pad can hide a fat man’s primary sex organ completely and his chest fat can give him larger breasts than some women have. Similarly a fat woman can lose some more pronounced feminine shapes due to sagging fat. This does not make fat people less attractive.

This term is known as "androgyny". In other words, there's a mix of masculine and feminine traits.

I don't see this desire very often from women and femmes. But I see it a lot with the cis male crowd. There are scores of forum posts talking about how much they love how more feminine the look. However, most of these aren't interested in becoming women or being more feminine in general.

This leads me to believe what they are more interested in is androgyny and not femininity. Indeed, once you get a certain size, it's harder to tell what gender you are unless you dress a certain way. It's a size mile marker for a lot of men.

Of course, there are men who have feminization kinks as well as fat kinks. This is an entirely different kettle of fish.