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Drugsarefunny:
It's going to get much fatter in less time. During pregnancy your hormones are very high, this makes you much hungrier and you harbor more food in your stomach. My cousin was pregnant and she eats much less now than when she had the baby in her belly.

Put food in front of her and she will eat it. She'll have weird cravings like pickles with cream or butter with ketchup.

Nijjrtman8:
I see
I was asking about the complications of a ever fattening woman and pregnancy
But if it has got to this subject,how should a man deal with this so that his wife dosen't gain a huge amount of weight during the pregnancy?

Munchies:
As always, frequent check ups are a must during pregnancy.

Nijjrtman8:
I may or may not have access to a doctor in the future
Is there an alternative for this?

Munchies:
Every woman is different. Some women won't experience any complications. Some women will. On top of that, every pregnancy is different. So the same woman could be fine during one pregnancy and have complications during another.

As always, frequent check ups are a must during pregnancy.

Nijjrtman8:
I know of both,where its fine and where there are complications
Are there any predictors for this?
Any clinical data on the effects of a woman who is constantly gaining weight in regards to pregnancy and after it?

Munchies:
It's not an exact science. But, if she has a family history, has had pregnancy complications in the past, or if she's having a high risk pregnancy, it's more likely she will have complications.

Also, keep in mind that if she does keep gaining consistently through her pregnancy, she may become more tired than if she kept her weight under control. So, if you go that route, you'll need to step up and help her.

And she'll really need you after she gives birth. Pregnancy and birth are hard on the body. And taking care of a baby (especially a newborn) is even harder. Don't be surprised if she wants to take a break from actively gaining.

Nijjrtman8:
How would I make her eat just what her body needs in terms of calories if she regularly overeats?

Munchies:
But if you cannot obtain the medical care than your hypothetical family needs, it is wiser to wait until you are.

Nijjrtman8:
What if that may never come?

Munchies:
It's very simple.

Don't have kids if you are unable to take care of them.

Nijjrtman8:
Are you trying to say that most of the country of Romania should stop having kids?
Are you trying to say that most africans should stop having children?

Munchies:
You don't make her do anything. She is her own person. If you are worried about her, you can have a conversation.

I'm a domme feeder. I can't make my sub feedee do something he didn't consent to do. Even though he gladly submits to me and loves to please me, I can't expect him to suddenly eat less after I stretched his stomach out. It's unreasonable.

Nijjrtman8:
But you said that I should take care of her and that if she keeps gaining during her pregnancy it will make her even more tired
Wouldn't the smart thing to do be spacing the gaining phases especially when she is pregnant?

Munchies:
There is a difference between being poor and having kids versus engaging in risky kink behavior without having access to medical care and having kids.

Do not conflate the two.

Nijjrtman8:
What do you mean by risky kink behaviour?

Munchies:
Munchies:
You are not thinking about this hypothetical feedee wife as a person. You are thinking of this hypothetical feedee wife as an object.

I see this all the time on FF. No matter how much a feeder loves their feedee, if they treat them as an object, things won't go well.

Nijjrtman8:
I do not understand how I am thinking of her as an object? I will not force her to do anything,just convince her that it would be best to eat much less during the pregnancy for her own sake and comfort
Is there something bad about this?