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I made the mistake of searching for posts mentioning "feeder" in r/relationships. People are not kind to that which they don't understand or have heard only horror stories of.

Now I want to hear about your favorite parts about being in a relationship or going in a date with someone who shares (or accepts) your kink, from fictional tropes to real-life experiences!

For me, one thing that stood out during my recent first experience stuffing someone was seeing their contented smile as I hand-fed them. Spoiling my partner and feeling responsible for their pleasure and contentment was euphoric in a way I've been yearning for for quite a while.

Having spoken to a lot of feeders on FF, I completely understand why we have the reputation we do.

For me, I love treating my feedee like a spoiled, lazy pet. It's amazing to see him full, sleepy, and blissed out. Seeing him smiling at me and blushing as I tell him he's my good boy or my greedy fat hog is so lovely.

Even better is how eager to please me. So he'll do whatever it takes to make me writhe. It's a great feedback loop.

There's something incredibly delightful about a consensual power exchange; knowing that I have earned someone's trust to the extent required to feed and even overfeeding them is thrilling.

Another thing I love which I've mostly only explored in RP (but got a taste of last weekend when my partner called themselves a glutton) is when the person I'm feeding acts greedy. One day I want to hear someone say, "Feed me more," after becoming too full to reach for food themselves.

Oh, that's always fun.

Sometimes I give my partner time limits when he's stuffing his face. The glutton really comes out them.

Gives me the urge to sit on his face.

I dream of the day I'll have someone sitting on my face while they themselves eat. I like to imagine feeling them get a little heavier with each bite...

Sounds delightful. I raise you stuffing your partner as they pleasure you. Then letting them get off once you're satisfied with their fullness.

Though we don't do in person meetings we have developed many amazing feedee/feeder relationships! We would say our favourite part of it would be consuming enormous amounts of foods knowing how bloated and big were going to get because of you allowing/encouraging us! also having someone who shares similar goals for us is amazing within itself!😍