Lovethechub99:
Ive been with my wife for a little over a year. I told her about my fetish before we were married. After we got married I asked her lightly in a few occasions if she would gain weight (she is thin/fit). She says no but that she loves food. She is very self conscious about her body and is always dieting, fasting, and taking supplements to increase her metabolism. Thats what crushes me. She is so thin and still wants to get skinnier. Its never enough for her. Ill be honest with you all, I really want her to let loose and be my chubby wife. Maybe thats wrong. Its just something I cant get out of my head. Im someone who loves to see a girl letting loose and being happy eating and getting fat, yet I live with someone always getting fatter. I need advice, i dont know what to do.
Question. You say she's already thin but wants to be thinner. How thin is she, and how much thinner does she want to be? I'm asking because I am trying to figure out if she has an ED.
Outside of that, you gotta realize she's making concessions for you. She doesn't want to be fat but openly admits she enjoys her food. Perhaps weight gain is off the table, but she might agree to the occasional stuffing.
You two need to have a conversation. Kink negotiation is a must, no matter what the kink is. Make sure she feels comfortable and listened to when you guys talk. That way, you two can find an arraignment that works best for both of you.
As a bonus, see if there are any kinks she has that she wants to experience with you. Who knows? There might be a fun way to implement both of them.
