General

I'm currently losing weight for surgery.

Never wanted to lose weight and I have to go from fat to barely chubby in the process but I have every intention of gaining it all back and a lot more after I'm recovered.

Losing weight gives me body dysphoric feelings, I'd rather risk the health issues of obesity than not live my life out as fat person.

My witchy partner was in that situation for more than a year. I will describe what happened under the BDSM issues because the possible solutions depend on whether you want to be fat or you want to feel fat while you actually at a bit chubbier than average.