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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
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(FYI I’m bad at grammar and punctuation sorry)I’ve been alone for my whole life which I’m at that point where I’ve given up cause at the size I’m at no matter how much a like it it just doesn’t work in any sexual way I can’t fuck anyone my fat pad covers up most my privates and I’ve heard people say they like it but that’s hard to believe cause people say they want someone as fat as me but they want to make someone as fat as me I’m already to fat for most people I’ve just given up hope of actually meeting someone and being happy with them doesn’t help I have terrible anxiety and bad at social cues


You don't need to be in a relationship to be happy. But I wouldn't say you're too fat to date. I won't deny it will be harder for you, but it's not impossible.

When I met my current parter, he was 407. I fattened him up to about 490-ish before he decided to lose weight for health reasons. Last I weighed him, he was 427.

Yes, he's a big dude, but I think he's the sexiest man alive. And I love him not because of his size, but rather who he is as a person.

Also just wanna say you don't need to have penis-in-vagina sex to be good at sex. There are sooooooo many options! Oral, fingers, having your partner get off with your fat rolls, toys - the list goes on.

In the mean time, just focus on finding your joy. You need to be able to treat yourself with love and respect to be happy. I speak from experience.
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Morbidly A Beast   United States
Joined 2 years
Sex won’t make you happy. Being in a relationship won’t make you happy. Only you being content in yourself will make you happy, the other stuff comes after.

And also sex is gross, not worth.
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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Morbidly A Beast:
Sex won’t make you happy. Being in a relationship won’t make you happy. Only you being content in yourself will make you happy, the other stuff comes after.

And also sex is gross, not worth.


I agree with everything except for the last statement. That one is a matter of personal taste. Some people like it or love it. And others are ambivalent or hate it.

That said, to OP, it's a good idea to figure out if you want sex because you enjoy it or because you're if you want sex because you feel you're supposed to want it.
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Morbidly A Beast   United States
Joined 2 years
Munchies:
I agree with everything except for the last statement. That one is a matter of personal taste. Some people like it or love it. And others are ambivalent or hate it.

That said, to OP, it's a good idea to figure out if you want sex because you enjoy it or because you're if you want sex because you feel you're supposed to want it.


While it’s true it’s a matter of personal taste i would say it’s not worth basing your entire value as a human person on having/getting or receiving/ able to have sex. Because it is a bit meh, tbh.
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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Munchies:
I agree with everything except for the last statement. That one is a matter of personal taste. Some people like it or love it. And others are ambivalent or hate it.

That said, to OP, it's a good idea to figure out if you want sex because you enjoy it or because you're if you want sex because you feel you're supposed to want it.

Morbidly A Beast:
While it’s true it’s a matter of personal taste i would say it’s not worth basing your entire value as a human person on having/getting or receiving/ able to have sex. Because it is a bit meh, tbh.


Yeah, basing your entire value around sex is unwise. But the second part about sex being meh is something I don't think we'll ever agree on. On account of your libido being low and mine being extremely high (typically need it at least once a day, but some days more).
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Morbidly A Beast   United States
Joined 2 years
Yes, but I am almost gonna guarantee most fat guys would find more enjoyment from a hot Philly cheesesteak than sex, all I’m sayin smiley
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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Morbidly A Beast:
Yes, but I am almost gonna guarantee most fat guys would find more enjoyment from a hot Philly cheesesteak than sex, all I’m sayin smiley


*Looks at my fat partner*

I sure do hope not. I don't think I'd recover if he'd rather have a hot Philly instead of sex with me.
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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Morbidly A Beast:
Yes, but I am almost gonna guarantee most fat guys would find more enjoyment from a hot Philly cheesesteak than sex, all I’m sayin

DollyXXDimples:
*dresses up as a Philly cheesesteak*

Ah, thats much better.

P.S. Not to braaag but... I know a very dreamy fat guy who would enjoy eating a Philly Cheesesteak while having sex with me.


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