Is it wrong for a feeder to meet up irl with a feedee first before doing online stuff? I've messaged lots of feedees over the years and only 1 was fine with meeting up first before moving onto online stuff which was great for both of us as we both got what we wanted. I understand people not wanting to meet up but as a feeder meeting up is super important as it lets us know you (the feedee) aren't a scammer meaning we'll be ok with doing online stuff. If a feedee says they will do online to meets up or no meet ups at all is a very bad sign for us feeders. If I'm able to meet up first then I'll happily do online stuff and become your feeder.
1 year
