Nofbar:
How much and fast did he gain? What happened to make this stop?
Munchies:
In half a year, he'd gained about 100 lbs. He got obsessed with heavy cream shakes. He'd consume about 10k of the stuff daily at the bare minimum.
The problem is that he stopped eating solid foods. Everything was about getting as fat as fast as possible. And in his mind, drinking his calories made more sense than eating.
There was a noticeable behavior shift as well. When we first met, he was this funny, thoughtful nerd with many interests. He was doing well in life overall. But about two or three months into being like this, he left all his responsibilities to the wayside.
His cognitive skills nose-dived. He was making a lot of dumb decisions, and we got into a lot of arguments. If I had enough sense, I'd have dumped him at this time. But I felt responsible, so I stayed.
Unfortunately, he started pulling away from me and ignoring my requests for medical updates. I wanted to make sure he stayed relatively healthy. He wanted to keep getting fat. And I also suspect there was an element of shame too. Kept going on about how he didn't deserve me.
Eventually, I had to make peace that this was going nowhere good and ended the relationship. I don't know if he actually stopped.
Anjou:
Mine did not stop eating healthy foods; but he was becoming addicted to seeing the rapid gains cream can bring.
I think for a gainer heavy cream can act like a body building steroid. The gains can come so fast and easy that it creates a body image issues.
But a 100lbs in six months is crazy
Munchies:
It was terrifying. I worried about him that I couldn't get off without feeling extremely guilty. He'd tell me not to worry - that he was taking care of himself. But I didn't trust or believe him.
I love extreme weight gain, but my limit is the health and/or comfort of my feedee. If I don't know how their health or comfort is being impacted, I can't enjoy it.
I'm grateful for my current feedee. We're on the same page about most things and communicate well. I never have to worry about him getting sick or dropping dead on me because we nip the problems in the bud. We're actually on a gaining hiatus, and he's losing weight for now.
How much and fast did he gain? What happened to make this stop?
Munchies:
In half a year, he'd gained about 100 lbs. He got obsessed with heavy cream shakes. He'd consume about 10k of the stuff daily at the bare minimum.
The problem is that he stopped eating solid foods. Everything was about getting as fat as fast as possible. And in his mind, drinking his calories made more sense than eating.
There was a noticeable behavior shift as well. When we first met, he was this funny, thoughtful nerd with many interests. He was doing well in life overall. But about two or three months into being like this, he left all his responsibilities to the wayside.
His cognitive skills nose-dived. He was making a lot of dumb decisions, and we got into a lot of arguments. If I had enough sense, I'd have dumped him at this time. But I felt responsible, so I stayed.
Unfortunately, he started pulling away from me and ignoring my requests for medical updates. I wanted to make sure he stayed relatively healthy. He wanted to keep getting fat. And I also suspect there was an element of shame too. Kept going on about how he didn't deserve me.
Eventually, I had to make peace that this was going nowhere good and ended the relationship. I don't know if he actually stopped.
Anjou:
Mine did not stop eating healthy foods; but he was becoming addicted to seeing the rapid gains cream can bring.
I think for a gainer heavy cream can act like a body building steroid. The gains can come so fast and easy that it creates a body image issues.
But a 100lbs in six months is crazy
Munchies:
It was terrifying. I worried about him that I couldn't get off without feeling extremely guilty. He'd tell me not to worry - that he was taking care of himself. But I didn't trust or believe him.
I love extreme weight gain, but my limit is the health and/or comfort of my feedee. If I don't know how their health or comfort is being impacted, I can't enjoy it.
I'm grateful for my current feedee. We're on the same page about most things and communicate well. I never have to worry about him getting sick or dropping dead on me because we nip the problems in the bud. We're actually on a gaining hiatus, and he's losing weight for now.
My fiancé wants to do a rapid gain before our wedding in October. He really had no health issues from his 50lb gain over a few weeks last fall he told me last night (which was confirmed by his annual checkup, but the wheezing and heavy breathing he did made me afraid af for him at the time he was drinking over a quart of cream a day)and seems to really becoming more of a gainer again(but with healthy food like nuts and whole grains) since I went on Wegoy after we got engaged in April and am really getting thin for the first in my life. And since we are both really getting turned on by the contrast, I might ok a rapid summer weight gain with heavy cream
1 year
