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Dating profile nod

Hey all figured I might poll the experts, have a dating profile on a popular dating site and was wondering if there was a way to subtly nod to the fact I am a willing feedee without outright just putting it in my profile and turning people off entirely. Any ideas on how to word it, or at least allude to it? I am sure being forthright is an answer, but I am very interested in finding love first.
1 year

Dating profile nod

StoryEnjoyer:
Hey all figured I might poll the experts, have a dating profile on a popular dating site and was wondering if there was a way to subtly nod to the fact I am a willing feedee without outright just putting it in my profile and turning people off entirely. Any ideas on how to word it, or at least allude to it? I am sure being forthright is an answer, but I am very interested in finding love first.


There really isn't a way to subtly mention you have a kink. It gets even trickier with feedism because so many aspects of this kink are doing things people outside the kink normally do.

Remember, you are looking for a kinkster in a sea of non-feedists. It is best to get to know the person first , see it you click, and then see if they'd be open to feeding you. Anything else leads to disappointment.
1 year

Dating profile nod

I do know ways to discreetly say you like feedees but not how you want to gain. “I like people heavier than me who can eat more than me”
1 year

Dating profile nod

Coffee__Creamsicle:
I do know ways to discreetly say you like feedees but not how you want to gain. “I like people heavier than me who can eat more than me”


That's hardly discreet. If anything, it's rather blunt.
1 year

Dating profile nod

Fair enough, it does get the point across without being too direct tho
1 year

Dating profile nod

2seatsalways:
If you don't want to be direct you can say you love food and eating you consider a passion, and that you are wanting a partner who agrees with this type of passion?


I don't think this is a bad and appreciate this, but this might almost be a bit weird no? The passion party specifically.
1 year

Dating profile nod

StoryEnjoyer:
Hey all figured I might poll the experts, have a dating profile on a popular dating site and was wondering if there was a way to subtly nod to the fact I am a willing feedee without outright just putting it in my profile and turning people off entirely. Any ideas on how to word it, or at least allude to it? I am sure being forthright is an answer, but I am very interested in finding love first.

Munchies:
There really isn't a way to subtly mention you have a kink. It gets even trickier with feedism because so many aspects of this kink are doing things people outside the kink normally do.

Remember, you are looking for a kinkster in a sea of non-feedists. It is best to get to know the person first , see it you click, and then see if they'd be open to feeding you. Anything else leads to disappointment.


Yeah that is what I was thinking it is a rather out there one or at least it feels that way and I think it might be best to just find someone I connect with and if it happens it happens.
1 year

Dating profile nod

Have you considered one of the more sex-positive apps like Feeld? Haven’t used it myself but from what I hear you can be more up front about your desires and preferences
1 year

Dating profile nod

Ex Jock:
I would make it obvious you are a big foodie, and then find someone who is into fat guys. Then go from there and either broach the subject if it comes up or test the waters. Getting rejected is a real possibility, but the risk reward has you either living the dream or just ending back up to where you are now.


I would agree with this wholeheartedly. As a woman who doesn't openly share my love of large & growing men, if I see the phrase foodie or anything describing food specifically (not just "I like tacos", more like, "looking for someone to share my enthusiasm for good meals or restaurants" ) on a dating app, I see potential 😉
1 year

Dating profile nod

I tried to disguise my fetish by writing that I like to eat good food and lie on the couch. People without a fetish thought I was a cat and even flirted, but unfortunately few people continued to communicate when I told them it was a fetish
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