Lifestyle tips

I've given this a lot of thought. Most of my life I've been underweight because of an incurable chronic illness I was born with. Now I am in my early 40s and after many surgeries my health has calmed down. I know that weight related health issues would only be worse the older I am. So I chose to give in and live out gaining as much as I can for as many years I can until my chronic health issues come out of remission and I end up losing weight again or I end up past my goal weight and develop health issues. I can handle some minor ones.

My wife is a big woman and we both enjoy and have enjoyed each other's weight gain. But, we have other things in life we enjoy and also want to be together as happy and healthy for as long as we can. So we've tried to have some balance. I know I definitely didn't want to go thru my whole life and never give gaining a try. I am trying to be as big as my wife. Which is about 300lbs. Which to me is big enough to enjoy the gaining and fat experience. But not to such an extreme that health is greatly affected. Also the weight could be lost, if needed. I know that all may sound a bit silly, but it seems to make sense in my head lol.

I think in my case the question is not whether my health will deteriorate but rather when. I only eat junk food and I smoke way too much. I hope to be able to gain as much fat as possible by then.

I'm fine with losing mobility but if I start to show signs of diabetes or having to be put on oxygen that's where I draw the line. I know there's that risk with gaining but I try to play it as safe as I can

Only to be forced naked al the time

When I was growing up my family were all about eating right and being fit. I've kinda mostly rejected that now, but sometimes I worry about the future. I do still get my nutrition, just have ice cream too, but I could def exercise more, or at all. I've been trying to get back into that, but ngl it's hard to find a balance between my desires and fitness, esp when being out of shape kinda pushes my buttons.

For a fetish not many. There are a few hardcore R/T ones (not fantasizers) who made the lifestyle choice and will ride it out to where it leads (regardless of complications, physical breakdowns, home attendant visits/close knit friends-family while being more distant from others (online & offline) or being facilitated/hospitalized long term etc).

Not at all. I just weight cycle to try to get the pleasure of gaining without the problems. I know yoyo dieting isn't good for you either though. I love the part where you gain weight but I'm unwilling to endure reduced mobility as a result of obesity. So I just tiptoe into the overweight range and back again.

I also work in healthcare and witnessing firsthand the suffering that diabetes and heart problems can cause definitely scares me away from gaining the way I fantasize.

I don’t want to have health problems but I understand they are unavoidable at a certain point, I really just wanna push the limit while it remains fun, and when it’s not ease back into a healthier way of living