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Dump him.

Sounds like preferences are changing on both sides and a change is needed?

Mia's preferences aren't changing. It's her partner that's changing his mind on things.

Miachu:
Thank you

We've been dating since December last year, and since then I've put on 20-30 pounds probably already, or even more than that, I dont really keep track often haha. But I was already chubby when he first asked me out and then I told him about my kink ect. I still dont know whats happened with him recently, But things have definitely changed[/quote]

That is a rather significant gain and some big changes for you both, maybe knowing your fetish and desire to continue with another 20 or 30 pounds spooked him? Either way doesn't sound like he is on board, flexible enough in his own attractions or willing to compromise.

Sorry that things aren't working out for you, but if he is already having trouble with this initial gain and you intend to double that... you'll both be miserable going forward. We all have our basic desires that need to be met and shallow or not physical attraction can sometimes trump love for another person. Hope you find someone that not only appreciates your new attributes but worships your curves and wants the same things out of life.

My preferences are still the same really, as munchies said, it was more on his end.

However one thing I'd say I'd take from this, is probably somebody that doesn't mind that im a bit of a big girl, and have no plans in changing that fact, and if they are interested in trying feedism? That's just a perfect little bonus 😁

Yeah he probably was spooked with it, and definitely wasn't on board in the end lol.

And Thank you, i hope i can find someone more accepting in the future also 😄

Guess I'll give a quick update

I'm seeing someone new now, Someone who I 100% knows appreciates me. That's all I'll say for now 😁


thank you all once again for the kind support and comments you all gave me!

I am so happy for you, Mia! Love this for you. 💖

Congrats, that’s great

Guess can give another update haha

Since getting with my current partner, I've put on like 40 pounds lmao

We're both going strong! And honestly, they appreciate me so much which has been a great feeling