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ForeverFFA:
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.

There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.

Munchies:
Yeah, there are a lot of guys who look like they rolled out of bed or crawled under a bridge. Unkempt beards, hair not combed, dressing like it's laundry day. Not saying you need to look like a fashion model, but it would be nice to put some effort into things.

ForeverFFA:
Lol! At least there are websites that offer advice on which brands are best suited for larger sizes, since I get that those can be tricky to find. Serious content creators might benefit from investing in themselves.

NoMoYoYo:
Which websites offer this advice? I like to dress nicer, but I have trouble finding clothes that fit nicely. Doesn't help that I'm not tall. Shirts that fit over my belly are usually long for my torso. I should probably get them tailored for a better fit, but don't want to spend money on something that may only fit for a short period of time.

Munchies:
You can do a quick Google search, but here's some stuff to get started:

fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/

fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/

fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/

As for your shirt situation, you might want to wear your pants over your belly. My partner is tall, but he is very belly heavy. He doesn't own any shirts that can cover his belly completely. Most cover 75% or 50% of his belly. So he puts his pants over his belly out of necessity.

NoMoYoYo:
Thanks for these! I do many of these things already. The one suggestion they offer that I have a problem with is tucking in my shirts. I'm not sure why. I know I'm big. I like being big. I know I will be bigger. But for whatever reason tucking in seems like it's highlighting my belly even more. I mean I'm not fooling anybody, my belly is growing. It would look less sloppy, yet I still have issues with it.


I feel you. I hate tucking my shirts in. Makes me feel contained. But my waist goes in, not out.

It sounds like you don't enjoy having too much attention to your middle. I get that. You may want to experiment with colors and fits. Maybe throw on an open jacket or cardigan over your tucked in shirt once it cools down some.
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Pics of guys

ForeverFFA:
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.

There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.

Munchies:
Yeah, there are a lot of guys who look like they rolled out of bed or crawled under a bridge. Unkempt beards, hair not combed, dressing like it's laundry day. Not saying you need to look like a fashion model, but it would be nice to put some effort into things.

ForeverFFA:
Lol! At least there are websites that offer advice on which brands are best suited for larger sizes, since I get that those can be tricky to find. Serious content creators might benefit from investing in themselves.

NoMoYoYo:
Which websites offer this advice? I like to dress nicer, but I have trouble finding clothes that fit nicely. Doesn't help that I'm not tall. Shirts that fit over my belly are usually long for my torso. I should probably get them tailored for a better fit, but don't want to spend money on something that may only fit for a short period of time.

Munchies:
You can do a quick Google search, but here's some stuff to get started:

fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/

fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/

fashionversity.com/how-to-dress-when-you-are-a-fat-man/

As for your shirt situation, you might want to wear your pants over your belly. My partner is tall, but he is very belly heavy. He doesn't own any shirts that can cover his belly completely. Most cover 75% or 50% of his belly. So he puts his pants over his belly out of necessity.

NoMoYoYo:
Thanks for these! I do many of these things already. The one suggestion they offer that I have a problem with is tucking in my shirts. I'm not sure why. I know I'm big. I like being big. I know I will be bigger. But for whatever reason tucking in seems like it's highlighting my belly even more. I mean I'm not fooling anybody, my belly is growing. It would look less sloppy, yet I still have issues with it.

Munchies:
I feel you. I hate tucking my shirts in. Makes me feel contained. But my waist goes in, not out.

It sounds like you don't enjoy having too much attention to your middle. I get that. You may want to experiment with colors and fits. Maybe throw on an open jacket or cardigan over your tucked in shirt once it cools down some.


I don't like the attention to my middle. But want to get fatter...such a quandry. I think its mostly because of my years of gaining and losing. I've worked with mostly the same people for years so they've seen me going up and down over and over...and over.

I will have to experiment. Especially layering with a jacket or cardigan. It hasn't been the warmest of summers here so I could probably start soon.

Sorry I've strayed from the original topic here. I don't actually intend on taking pictures. But I do want to look good in general. I never want to be a "slob". If that's your thing, all the power to you, just not for me.
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I think while talking about pics of guys, fashion is absolutely on topic! Nice grooming, well fitting suits, a prominent belly looking sharp in a button-up are REALLY HOT.

There is a Reddit called r/bigmenfashionadvice that I follow and they have great advice. (I've specifically asked about wide shirts being too long for short guys, and tailoring is the way to go.)

OT a little: I've mentioned somewhere else on Reddit that there should be a giant database for all things Plus-Sized, from clothes to travel to tips and tricks - but that would be a massive undertaking I'm not able to take on. šŸ˜›
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MickRidem:
I think while talking about pics of guys, fashion is absolutely on topic! Nice grooming, well fitting suits, a prominent belly looking sharp in a button-up are REALLY HOT.

There is a Reddit called r/bigmenfashionadvice that I follow and they have great advice. (I've specifically asked about wide shirts being too long for short guys, and tailoring is the way to go.)

OT a little: I've mentioned somewhere else on Reddit that there should be a giant database for all things Plus-Sized, from clothes to travel to tips and tricks - but that would be a massive undertaking I'm not able to take on. šŸ˜›


I checked out the reddit page there's some great stuff there.

My clothes are okay, but I think I can do better. I do have good grooming habits. I shave my head and have a beard so if either of those are unkept, it doesn't look good.
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ForeverFFA:
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.

There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.

Munchies:
Yeah, there are a lot of guys who look like they rolled out of bed or crawled under a bridge. Unkempt beards, hair not combed, dressing like it's laundry day. Not saying you need to look like a fashion model, but it would be nice to put some effort into things.

ForeverFFA:
Lol! At least there are websites that offer advice on which brands are best suited for larger sizes, since I get that those can be tricky to find. Serious content creators might benefit from investing in themselves.

NoMoYoYo:
Which websites offer this advice? I like to dress nicer, but I have trouble finding clothes that fit nicely. Doesn't help that I'm not tall. Shirts that fit over my belly are usually long for my torso. I should probably get them tailored for a better fit, but don't want to spend money on something that may only fit for a short period of time.

ForeverFFA:
I was thinking of chubstr.com/[/quote]

This site is great! Thanks!
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Today I tucked in my shirt. I was out and about just to try it to see how I felt. I was at the mall briefly, had lunch at Wendy's and then did groceries. It was definitely out of my comfort zone, but it was okay. I think it looked good. I will try it again soon. It was for sure easier to do in front of strangers. I'm not ready to do it at work yet.
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NoMoYoYo:
Today I tucked in my shirt. I was out and about just to try it to see how I felt. I was at the mall briefly, had lunch at Wendy's and then did groceries. It was definitely out of my comfort zone, but it was okay. I think it looked good. I will try it again soon. It was for sure easier to do in front of strangers. I'm not ready to do it at work yet.


Progress!
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Bathisum:
What pictures do feedee, ffa, or admires like to see from guys the most? Like what kind of poses or content would y’all like to see from a male feedee? Both sfw or nsfw either way.

Munchies:
Honestly, I wish the men would take a page out of their female counterpart's books and put in some effort to make things look good.

Get some decent lighting and a good background.

Learn your angles.

Don't do the same thing over and over.

Make an effort to be sexy.


I like and appreciate Munchies’ ideas here. For me, a little attention has turned me into an attention hog. Not a good thing and not a good look.

I also want to really show off skin, but I realize that really, less is more. A belly peaking out of a too-tight button up shirt tells a story. Suggestive sexy is good.

Also, really I think the best feedist photos tell stories. Outgrown clothing. Showing your struggle to button your pants. Including food or empty pizza boxes or ice cream cartons.

I don’t have many photos posted here. I’ve been haphazard here in what I’ve posted. I have much more on my Feabie account. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

I have a tendency to do the same thing over and over, and I’m glad Munchies mentioned that. I’m working on stopping that. I’m such a narcissist now that I’ve done this. It took me years to work up the courage to post photos. I had no idea it would release the secret exhibitionist inside me.

It also helps to look at others’ photos. See which ones you like and see if you can replicate the poses, the lighting or the ā€œstoryā€ the photo tells. If you’re a guy, look at the really great women’s pics. See what they’re doing that’s right. Imitation is the greatest form of flattery.

Also, listen to others. And don’t be afraid of trying something new. I was recently encouraged to take some photos of my bottom. I’d tried before but disliked the results. However, this bootylicious woman who encouraged me also gave me tips on a good arse photo. They came out better than I could have ever imagined.

Maybe I’ll post one here. I posted a few on Feabie as ā€œfull moonā€ reminders that the full moon is tonight. It’s also a Super Moon and a Blue Moon. The largest moon this year. Get outside tonight and enjoy the moonlight.

Okay. Got off topic. I did learn to ask for help from someone who I considered a booty connoisseur. Lesson learned.
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