Munchies:
My partner and I are on a gaining break. He's been getting in shape since January ~ February. Still, some things remain unchanged.
The other day, I decided to tease my partner for an entire day. Even though I didn't mention feedism, he couldn't help but stuff his greedy face with snacks. It was great.
MickRidem:
...I have no concept of the frequency or time needed for this kind of conditioning.
Good to hear your guy's feeling good on this break, and yet not entirely losing some of that fun. 😉🤣
Munchies:
It's all about balance, baby.
As to the conditioning, it's more about consistency than it is frequency. But frequency does speed things up.
I have an extremely high libido. My partner's is more normal. We've figured out a system where I'm sexually satisfied, but he isn't pushing himself too hard. However, initially, he'd put out whenever I wanted. This was at least once a day but often two or three times a day. Add onto the fact that, initially, we only engaged in feedism and he wasn't used to being desired so intensely, the link formed within two weeks. (Looking back, I have no idea how he managed to keep up, lol.)
In your situation, assuming that you and your husband (partner?) have more normal libidos, it will probably take you longer than two weeks to form such a strong link. But they say that you can make anything a habit within 21 days. So there's that.
MickRidem:
I also have a very high libido, and my guy is more normal. Thankfully as a sub who enjoys edging and denial, this works out well for us. LOL!
But this is why I wonder what I can achieve on my own. Of course, work and life get in the way (pffft) so frequency/consistency can change.
An example might be... one Boston Cream donut a week when I *know* I can make a sexual link with some private time, vs the more occasional stuffing when he's involved. (We have more than occasional sex, but not Feedee related. 😁) But if in some way, doing even more intense training than I could realistically do, it's awesome to see that a month is *possible* to achieve results.
If I ever did this, I would track it and keep a record. Pavlov training is just SO COOL. 🐖🍆🤣🔥
My partner and I are on a gaining break. He's been getting in shape since January ~ February. Still, some things remain unchanged.
The other day, I decided to tease my partner for an entire day. Even though I didn't mention feedism, he couldn't help but stuff his greedy face with snacks. It was great.
MickRidem:
...I have no concept of the frequency or time needed for this kind of conditioning.
Good to hear your guy's feeling good on this break, and yet not entirely losing some of that fun. 😉🤣
Munchies:
It's all about balance, baby.
As to the conditioning, it's more about consistency than it is frequency. But frequency does speed things up.
I have an extremely high libido. My partner's is more normal. We've figured out a system where I'm sexually satisfied, but he isn't pushing himself too hard. However, initially, he'd put out whenever I wanted. This was at least once a day but often two or three times a day. Add onto the fact that, initially, we only engaged in feedism and he wasn't used to being desired so intensely, the link formed within two weeks. (Looking back, I have no idea how he managed to keep up, lol.)
In your situation, assuming that you and your husband (partner?) have more normal libidos, it will probably take you longer than two weeks to form such a strong link. But they say that you can make anything a habit within 21 days. So there's that.
MickRidem:
I also have a very high libido, and my guy is more normal. Thankfully as a sub who enjoys edging and denial, this works out well for us. LOL!
But this is why I wonder what I can achieve on my own. Of course, work and life get in the way (pffft) so frequency/consistency can change.
An example might be... one Boston Cream donut a week when I *know* I can make a sexual link with some private time, vs the more occasional stuffing when he's involved. (We have more than occasional sex, but not Feedee related. 😁) But if in some way, doing even more intense training than I could realistically do, it's awesome to see that a month is *possible* to achieve results.
If I ever did this, I would track it and keep a record. Pavlov training is just SO COOL. 🐖🍆🤣🔥
You could eat every time you masturbate. Or you can tell your husband what you want and see what he comes up with. Considering how the game went, I think he'd be on board.
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