Lifestyle tips

New on feederism

I would like tips to insert feederism in my relationship, I identify as a feeder but I haven't spoken openly with my husband yet.
1 year

New on feederism

Donut03:
I would like tips to insert feederism in my relationship, I identify as a feeder but I haven't spoken openly with my husband yet.


I'd have a conversation with him first. Get on the same page about everything.

There's a user on the site, Lora Dayton, that made a good resource about having the conversation with your non-feedist partner.

loradayton.com/2022/01/26/how-to-have-the-kink-talk-with-your-partner/
1 year

New on feederism

Thank you, I will take a look.

I started talking about it and he got interested. I want to start calmly so as not to scare him hahaha.

I actually realized that I don't even know exactly what I'd like because I never opened up to that side of me
1 year

New on feederism

Donut03:
Thank you, I will take a look.

I started talking about it and he got interested. I want to start calmly so as not to scare him hahaha.

I actually realized that I don't even know exactly what I'd like because I never opened up to that side of me


Now is a good time to explore.
1 year

New on feederism

Donut03:
Thank you, I will take a look.

I started talking about it and he got interested. I want to start calmly so as not to scare him hahaha.

I actually realized that I don't even know exactly what I'd like because I never opened up to that side of me


Im really curious about this, could you update us on how this goes? (what are the good moments, what are the moments where you feel you need to be more careful, ect!)
1 year

New on feederism

Donut03:
Thank you, I will take a look.

I started talking about it and he got interested. I want to start calmly so as not to scare him hahaha.

I actually realized that I don't even know exactly what I'd like because I never opened up to that side of me

Munchies:
Now is a good time to explore.




Yes. I think it’s was more easy than I expected.
1 year

New on feederism

Donut03:
Thank you, I will take a look.

I started talking about it and he got interested. I want to start calmly so as not to scare him hahaha.

I actually realized that I don't even know exactly what I'd like because I never opened up to that side of me

Enas:
Im really curious about this, could you update us on how this goes? (what are the good moments, what are the moments where you feel you need to be more careful, ect!)


Sure, I would appreciate it. He's more open to it than I thought, so I can see good times ahead. we already have a great relationship i just wanted to explore that other side that brings me so much pleasure.
1 year

New on feederism

Donut03:
Thank you, I will take a look.

I started talking about it and he got interested. I want to start calmly so as not to scare him hahaha.

I actually realized that I don't even know exactly what I'd like because I never opened up to that side of me

Enas:
Im really curious about this, could you update us on how this goes? (what are the good moments, what are the moments where you feel you need to be more careful, ect!)

Donut03:
Sure, I would appreciate it. He's more open to it than I thought, so I can see good times ahead. we already have a great relationship i just wanted to explore that other side that brings me so much pleasure.


Im glad to hear that!
1 year