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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
ForeverFFA:
I was just curious what people's mental associations with fat are, besides the obvious fact that it turns them on? And do you think these are somehow connected to the reason that you have this fetish?

I've always thought of bigger guys as somehow strong, cuddly protectors. Like, it makes me feel safe to have one on (or by) my side. Beyond that, cooking and eating can be emotionally charged and intimate acts even for vanilla people. To see a person who wears extra signs of that on their body conjures up those same associations for me. Also, people who know how to eat seem like people who know how to have a good time in general.

Thoughts?


Aside from enjoying the texture, I feel neutral about fat outside of kink. However, if I am the reason someone has gotten fat, it makes me feel domestic. I enjoy cooking delicious food, but I only feed the people I like. So if I feed you a lot, and you gain weight from it, it's because I like you a lot.
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HappyBigBelly   United States
Joined 11 years
It means life experience to me. Been through a lot and you’re earned the right to stuff yourself however much you want, even if it means bursting through your clothes :-)
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Wifestuffer   Japan
Joined 2 years
My wife made me extreme as a feeder.

For me, obesity represents love and admiration. Find the one you love and fill the world with with more of them. It's not for everyone- in fact it's for very few.

But as she told me herself: "My belly's so big because you love me so much!"

"I'll get even bigger if you love me harder!"
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Dasassy420   United States
Joined 1 year
I associate fat with comfort and warmth. Symbolizing abundance and luxury, it serves as a reminder of life's good things.
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Morbidly A Beast   United States
Joined 2 years
For me fat symbolizes decadent overindulgence and gluttony
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Softcutie   United States
Joined 1 year
Physically existing in a body that feels like mine, tenderness, sensuality, comfort and care, love transformed to softness
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MarshmallowMinotaur   United States
Joined 7 years
1. It represents strength to me, at least as much as muscle does.

2. It represents a “don’t mess with me”.

3. Yet it represents friendliness, maybe because of the old saying that “fat people are jolly”.
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Dasassy420   United States
Joined 1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
For me fat symbolizes decadent overindulgence and gluttony
For instance, when u see someone eating a huge piece of cake, u think about how excessive it is, and u think this symbolizes their overindulgence.
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Morbidly A Beast   United States
Joined 2 years
Morbidly A Beast:
For me fat symbolizes decadent overindulgence and gluttony

Dasassy420:
For instance, when u see someone eating a huge piece of cake, u think about how excessive it is, and u think this symbolizes their overindulgence.


Precisely. But instead of others it’s my own habits lol
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Chubbydiva   United States
Joined 17 years
HappyBigBelly:
It means life experience to me. Been through a lot and you’re earned the right to stuff yourself however much you want, even if it means bursting through your clothes :-)


It means the freedom of eating whatever you want and gaining weight.
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