2 years
My dreams and desires have changed since i gave in
Munchies:
I had a feedee that was into extreme weight gain (like I am) and decided to get fat no matter the cost. Went from being a pretty chill guy to a man that pretty much worshipped the gains at all cost.
He was a pretty smart guy at first, but I noticed after he switched to a diet of heavy cream and fast foods, he got dumb real fast.
Biggerstudentbody:
I'm super curious to hear more about this...
What more is there to say than I already said?
2 years
My dreams and desires have changed since i gave in
Munchies:
I had a feedee that was into extreme weight gain (like I am) and decided to get fat no matter the cost. Went from being a pretty chill guy to a man that pretty much worshipped the gains at all cost.
He was a pretty smart guy at first, but I noticed after he switched to a diet of heavy cream and fast foods, he got dumb real fast.
Biggerstudentbody:
I'm super curious to hear more about this...
Munchies:
What more is there to say than I already said?
Just examples of what changed or what he did that led to a diagnosis of "getting dumb" I suppose. I can understand his physical abilities degrading as he put on weight but I suppose I don't understand his mental ones degrading so fast.
2 years
My dreams and desires have changed since i gave in
Munchies:
I had a feedee that was into extreme weight gain (like I am) and decided to get fat no matter the cost. Went from being a pretty chill guy to a man that pretty much worshipped the gains at all cost.
He was a pretty smart guy at first, but I noticed after he switched to a diet of heavy cream and fast foods, he got dumb real fast.
Biggerstudentbody:
I'm super curious to hear more about this...
Munchies:
What more is there to say than I already said?
Biggerstudentbody:
Just examples of what changed or what he did that led to a diagnosis of "getting dumb" I suppose. I can understand his physical abilities degrading as he put on weight but I suppose I don't understand his mental ones degrading so fast.
It makes perfect sense. You think and make decisions with your brain. Your brain is an organ that needs the proper nutrition to function. He wasn't getting that.
Remember, he was living off of heavy cream and fast food. These are not know for being bastions of nutritional wellbeing. On top of all that, too much fat in your diet can lead to nutritional malabsorption and too much sugar and/or salt causes brain fog.
And that's not even considering how he got addicted to rapid gaining. So he really wasn't making good decisions.
You might have noticed from my posts, but I'm a huge nerd. I like to learn, and I have a sizable repository of knowledge. My friends and family call me a walking encyclopedia. It was exciting when we first met because he could keep up with me mentally. We had a number of intellectually stimulating conversations.
It was great.
However, once he got hooked on rapid, intense gaining, it got harder and harder to hold a conversation with him about anything. The whit I'd admired was long gone, and I hated it. He also made a number of reckless decision that put him into precarious situations in his regular life.
I was scared for him. I tried to help him any way I could. I even tried to get him to eat better and go back to enjoying the things he used to enjoy. But nothing I did or said could get through to him.
So, eventually, I had to walk away.
2 years
My dreams and desires have changed since i gave in
Munchies:
I had a feedee that was into extreme weight gain (like I am) and decided to get fat no matter the cost. Went from being a pretty chill guy to a man that pretty much worshipped the gains at all cost.
He was a pretty smart guy at first, but I noticed after he switched to a diet of heavy cream and fast foods, he got dumb real fast.
Biggerstudentbody:
I'm super curious to hear more about this...
Munchies:
What more is there to say than I already said?
Biggerstudentbody:
Just examples of what changed or what he did that led to a diagnosis of "getting dumb" I suppose. I can understand his physical abilities degrading as he put on weight but I suppose I don't understand his mental ones degrading so fast.
Munchies:
It makes perfect sense. You think and make decisions with your brain. Your brain is an organ that needs the proper nutrition to function. He wasn't getting that.
Remember, he was living off of heavy cream and fast food. These are not know for being bastions of nutritional wellbeing. On top of all that, too much fat in your diet can lead to nutritional malabsorption and too much sugar and/or salt causes brain fog.
And that's not even considering how he got addicted to rapid gaining. So he really wasn't making good decisions.
You might have noticed from my posts, but I'm a huge nerd. I like to learn, and I have a sizable repository of knowledge. My friends and family call me a walking encyclopedia. It was exciting when we first met because he could keep up with me mentally. We had a number of intellectually stimulating conversations.
It was great.
However, once he got hooked on rapid, intense gaining, it got harder and harder to hold a conversation with him about anything. The whit I'd admired was long gone, and I hated it. He also made a number of reckless decision that put him into precarious situations in his regular life.
I was scared for him. I tried to help him any way I could. I even tried to get him to eat better and go back to enjoying the things he used to enjoy. But nothing I did or said could get through to him.
So, eventually, I had to walk away.
Thank you for elaborating. Sorry you had to go through all that.
2 years
My dreams and desires have changed since i gave in
Munchies:
I had a feedee that was into extreme weight gain (like I am) and decided to get fat no matter the cost. Went from being a pretty chill guy to a man that pretty much worshipped the gains at all cost.
He was a pretty smart guy at first, but I noticed after he switched to a diet of heavy cream and fast foods, he got dumb real fast.
Biggerstudentbody:
I'm super curious to hear more about this...
Munchies:
What more is there to say than I already said?
Biggerstudentbody:
Just examples of what changed or what he did that led to a diagnosis of "getting dumb" I suppose. I can understand his physical abilities degrading as he put on weight but I suppose I don't understand his mental ones degrading so fast.
Munchies:
It makes perfect sense. You think and make decisions with your brain. Your brain is an organ that needs the proper nutrition to function. He wasn't getting that.
Remember, he was living off of heavy cream and fast food. These are not know for being bastions of nutritional wellbeing. On top of all that, too much fat in your diet can lead to nutritional malabsorption and too much sugar and/or salt causes brain fog.
And that's not even considering how he got addicted to rapid gaining. So he really wasn't making good decisions.
You might have noticed from my posts, but I'm a huge nerd. I like to learn, and I have a sizable repository of knowledge. My friends and family call me a walking encyclopedia. It was exciting when we first met because he could keep up with me mentally. We had a number of intellectually stimulating conversations.
It was great.
However, once he got hooked on rapid, intense gaining, it got harder and harder to hold a conversation with him about anything. The whit I'd admired was long gone, and I hated it. He also made a number of reckless decision that put him into precarious situations in his regular life.
I was scared for him. I tried to help him any way I could. I even tried to get him to eat better and go back to enjoying the things he used to enjoy. But nothing I did or said could get through to him.
So, eventually, I had to walk away.
Biggerstudentbody:
Thank you for elaborating. Sorry you had to go through all that.
It is what it is. But stuff like this is why I am a huge proponent of balancing your health with enjoying this fetish. I see post after post on FF deifying kink at the expense of all else. People destroy their lives and encourage others to do the same all in the name of this fetish.
It's terrifying to see.
I know that most of these people are like this out of ignorance which is why I can't help but say something. You can enjoy this fetish - even the extreme parts of it. But you don't have to throw away your quality of life to do it. It's all about finding your balance.
2 years
My dreams and desires have changed since i gave in
Munchies:
I had a feedee that was into extreme weight gain (like I am) and decided to get fat no matter the cost. Went from being a pretty chill guy to a man that pretty much worshipped the gains at all cost.
He was a pretty smart guy at first, but I noticed after he switched to a diet of heavy cream and fast foods, he got dumb real fast.
Biggerstudentbody:
I'm super curious to hear more about this...
Munchies:
What more is there to say than I already said?
Biggerstudentbody:
Just examples of what changed or what he did that led to a diagnosis of "getting dumb" I suppose. I can understand his physical abilities degrading as he put on weight but I suppose I don't understand his mental ones degrading so fast.
Munchies:
It makes perfect sense. You think and make decisions with your brain. Your brain is an organ that needs the proper nutrition to function. He wasn't getting that.
Remember, he was living off of heavy cream and fast food. These are not know for being bastions of nutritional wellbeing. On top of all that, too much fat in your diet can lead to nutritional malabsorption and too much sugar and/or salt causes brain fog.
And that's not even considering how he got addicted to rapid gaining. So he really wasn't making good decisions.
You might have noticed from my posts, but I'm a huge nerd. I like to learn, and I have a sizable repository of knowledge. My friends and family call me a walking encyclopedia. It was exciting when we first met because he could keep up with me mentally. We had a number of intellectually stimulating conversations.
It was great.
However, once he got hooked on rapid, intense gaining, it got harder and harder to hold a conversation with him about anything. The whit I'd admired was long gone, and I hated it. He also made a number of reckless decision that put him into precarious situations in his regular life.
I was scared for him. I tried to help him any way I could. I even tried to get him to eat better and go back to enjoying the things he used to enjoy. But nothing I did or said could get through to him.
So, eventually, I had to walk away.
Biggerstudentbody:
Thank you for elaborating. Sorry you had to go through all that.
First off, I think it is a very good choice to leave a relationship that no longer meets your needs. People change (or don’t) at different rates and in different directions and may become incompatible over time. So sometimes you have to call it quits for everybody’s sake and well-being.
However, no one outside of a relationship can ever be an accurate judge of what goes on between two people. Heck, most of the time not even the people in the relationship can do that, since we really only can see things from our own point of view. I would be very curious how your ex would describe his side and experience of that relationship. My suspicions are that his “cognitive decline” may be less linked to a high-fat diet maybe more to depression (?), ceasing to make an effort to impress you ( as people are prone to do at the beginning of a relationship) or other factors we have no idea about. Nutritionally speaking, the brain needs fat to function ( and unlike other parts of your body) it’s not too picky about where that comes from. Brain function is much more negatively impacted by an extremely low fat diet than the other way around. Please, this is not to say, that your ex didn’t change or that his eating habits were ideal, I was not there to judge that, however, these changes may have had other causes.
2 years
My dreams and desires have changed since i gave in
Biggerstudentbody:
I'm super curious to hear more about this...
Munchies:
What more is there to say than I already said?
Biggerstudentbody:
Just examples of what changed or what he did that led to a diagnosis of "getting dumb" I suppose. I can understand his physical abilities degrading as he put on weight but I suppose I don't understand his mental ones degrading so fast.
Munchies:
It makes perfect sense. You think and make decisions with your brain. Your brain is an organ that needs the proper nutrition to function. He wasn't getting that.
Remember, he was living off of heavy cream and fast food. These are not know for being bastions of nutritional wellbeing. On top of all that, too much fat in your diet can lead to nutritional malabsorption and too much sugar and/or salt causes brain fog.
And that's not even considering how he got addicted to rapid gaining. So he really wasn't making good decisions.
You might have noticed from my posts, but I'm a huge nerd. I like to learn, and I have a sizable repository of knowledge. My friends and family call me a walking encyclopedia. It was exciting when we first met because he could keep up with me mentally. We had a number of intellectually stimulating conversations.
It was great.
However, once he got hooked on rapid, intense gaining, it got harder and harder to hold a conversation with him about anything. The whit I'd admired was long gone, and I hated it. He also made a number of reckless decision that put him into precarious situations in his regular life.
I was scared for him. I tried to help him any way I could. I even tried to get him to eat better and go back to enjoying the things he used to enjoy. But nothing I did or said could get through to him.
So, eventually, I had to walk away.
Biggerstudentbody:
Thank you for elaborating. Sorry you had to go through all that.
Bigdoug:
First off, I think it is a very good choice to leave a relationship that no longer meets your needs. People change (or don’t) at different rates and in different directions and may become incompatible over time. So sometimes you have to call it quits for everybody’s sake and well-being.
However, no one outside of a relationship can ever be an accurate judge of what goes on between two people. Heck, most of the time not even the people in the relationship can do that, since we really only can see things from our own point of view. I would be very curious how your ex would describe his side and experience of that relationship. My suspicions are that his “cognitive decline” may be less linked to a high-fat diet maybe more to depression (?), ceasing to make an effort to impress you ( as people are prone to do at the beginning of a relationship) or other factors we have no idea about. Nutritionally speaking, the brain needs fat to function ( and unlike other parts of your body) it’s not too picky about where that comes from. Brain function is much more negatively impacted by an extremely low fat diet than the other way around. Please, this is not to say, that your ex didn’t change or that his eating habits were ideal, I was not there to judge that, however, these changes may have had other causes.
I'm super curious to hear more about this...
Munchies:
What more is there to say than I already said?
Biggerstudentbody:
Just examples of what changed or what he did that led to a diagnosis of "getting dumb" I suppose. I can understand his physical abilities degrading as he put on weight but I suppose I don't understand his mental ones degrading so fast.
Munchies:
It makes perfect sense. You think and make decisions with your brain. Your brain is an organ that needs the proper nutrition to function. He wasn't getting that.
Remember, he was living off of heavy cream and fast food. These are not know for being bastions of nutritional wellbeing. On top of all that, too much fat in your diet can lead to nutritional malabsorption and too much sugar and/or salt causes brain fog.
And that's not even considering how he got addicted to rapid gaining. So he really wasn't making good decisions.
You might have noticed from my posts, but I'm a huge nerd. I like to learn, and I have a sizable repository of knowledge. My friends and family call me a walking encyclopedia. It was exciting when we first met because he could keep up with me mentally. We had a number of intellectually stimulating conversations.
It was great.
However, once he got hooked on rapid, intense gaining, it got harder and harder to hold a conversation with him about anything. The whit I'd admired was long gone, and I hated it. He also made a number of reckless decision that put him into precarious situations in his regular life.
I was scared for him. I tried to help him any way I could. I even tried to get him to eat better and go back to enjoying the things he used to enjoy. But nothing I did or said could get through to him.
So, eventually, I had to walk away.
Biggerstudentbody:
Thank you for elaborating. Sorry you had to go through all that.
Bigdoug:
First off, I think it is a very good choice to leave a relationship that no longer meets your needs. People change (or don’t) at different rates and in different directions and may become incompatible over time. So sometimes you have to call it quits for everybody’s sake and well-being.
However, no one outside of a relationship can ever be an accurate judge of what goes on between two people. Heck, most of the time not even the people in the relationship can do that, since we really only can see things from our own point of view. I would be very curious how your ex would describe his side and experience of that relationship. My suspicions are that his “cognitive decline” may be less linked to a high-fat diet maybe more to depression (?), ceasing to make an effort to impress you ( as people are prone to do at the beginning of a relationship) or other factors we have no idea about. Nutritionally speaking, the brain needs fat to function ( and unlike other parts of your body) it’s not too picky about where that comes from. Brain function is much more negatively impacted by an extremely low fat diet than the other way around. Please, this is not to say, that your ex didn’t change or that his eating habits were ideal, I was not there to judge that, however, these changes may have had other causes.
For someone who said "no one outside of a relationship can ever be an accurate judge of what goes on between two people" you sure do seem intent on not believing what I have to say.
I'm not going to go into every little detail about what did and didn't happen with him. There is a difference between talking about my experiences and giving out his personal business. That said, he was not depressed. I am intimately familiar with depression as I have had chronic depression for a number of years. He had none of the symptoms.
Also, him having a high fat diet was not the problem. As I said, very explicitly, he was living off of heavy cream shakes, junk food, and nothing else. He was not getting the nutrition he needed to function.
Again, it was not the fat. It was the malnutrition. The high fat in his diet simply amplified the issue. Diets high in fat can least to nutritional malabsorption. If you are already malnourished, this makes a bad problem worse. Eating too much fat blocks the intestines from efficiently absorbing the nutrients from the food you ate.
2 years
