Fattening others

Soft feeding ideas

Probably my biggest comfy fantasy is having a feeder/feedee picnic outdoors, with a basket full of all their favorites, maybe some wine, compete with talking, joking and cuddling on the blanket out in the outdoors.

For solo ideas: I'm a feeder not a feedee, but even I like this: pamper yourself with snacks in the bath. I used to do this when I worked mornings, I'd just grab my breakfast and eat it in the bathtub, and it was usually something basic like a poptart or a toaster waffle, and I'd do it for time economy rather than enjoyment, but I did enjoy it. I would imagine myself somewhere fancier, with waitstaff or something to bring me my breakfast in the bath instead of the run-down apartment I actually live in, and sometimes...sometimes that got me through the fkin day.
1 year

Soft feeding ideas

Stevita:
Probably my biggest comfy fantasy is having a feeder/feedee picnic outdoors, with a basket full of all their favorites, maybe some wine, compete with talking, joking and cuddling on the blanket out in the outdoors.

For solo ideas: I'm a feeder not a feedee, but even I like this: pamper yourself with snacks in the bath. I used to do this when I worked mornings, I'd just grab my breakfast and eat it in the bathtub, and it was usually something basic like a poptart or a toaster waffle, and I'd do it for time economy rather than enjoyment, but I did enjoy it. I would imagine myself somewhere fancier, with waitstaff or something to bring me my breakfast in the bath instead of the run-down apartment I actually live in, and sometimes...sometimes that got me through the fkin day.


I had a really lovely time with a friend many years ago feeding them strawberry ice cream while they took a bath. We talked and relaxed until the water got too cold and the ice cream had lost its magic. Not a bad way to spend an evening.
1 year

Soft feeding ideas

Movie night snuggles while hand feeding him treats.

Cooking his favorite meal and giving him several plates.

Classic belly stuffing while massaging his belly.
1 year

Soft feeding ideas

getting extra “just in case” or “for later” but it ends up being just eaten all in one ravenously gluttonous sitting
1 year

Soft feeding ideas

Making love while hand feeding them can be gentle.
If you include stuff outside the home, there are some fun feedee date ideas.
Fast food crawls, where you order something at every drive-through along a route.
Buffet dates are a classic.
Order the entire dessert menu at a restaurant.
Order something at every restaurant in a mall food court.
I'd suggest ordering something from every food truck in an area, but I think that's more of a Portland thing. You get the idea.
1 year

Soft feeding ideas

An scenario I've though about, with a feeder POV:
Having lunch/dinner with a big guy and me not feeling like finishing my portion, which happens often. When he is done with his, sitting on his lap and gently feeding him all that's left on my plate.
1 year

Soft feeding ideas

This thread really is fantastic.

As much as I love the idea of encouraging overeating with belly rubs, I think a good soft feeding scenario involves allll of the rubs.

A deep back massage while eating, slowly up the back and neck, to the head and temples. Melting away the day’s stress, and mellowing the mood to total comfort and relaxation. A little feedist twist would involve the feeder’s hands only working while the feedee is eating. An endless massage fueled by gluttony, slowly turning the feedee into a stuffed, relaxed puddle.
1 year

Soft feeding ideas

Nameistoolon:
This thread really is fantastic.

As much as I love the idea of encouraging overeating with belly rubs, I think a good soft feeding scenario involves allll of the rubs.

A deep back massage while eating, slowly up the back and neck, to the head and temples. Melting away the day’s stress, and mellowing the mood to total comfort and relaxation. A little feedist twist would involve the feeder’s hands only working while the feedee is eating. An endless massage fueled by gluttony, slowly turning the feedee into a stuffed, relaxed puddle.


This sounds delightful. I'll have to try this with my partner.
1 year

Soft feeding ideas

ForeverFFA:
I finally got around to creating this thread after thinking about it for a while. What are some gentle and romantic feeding ideas that you have either done or would like to try? Ideas from both feeders and feedees are welcome, and my hope is that this will become a resource/inspiration guide of sorts. It doesn't even have to be with a partner, but could be some way you like to treat yourself that feels decadent and loving at the same time.

I will start:
Make a big platter of their all-time favorite snack foods right after a big meal and hand-feed some to them, while they recline and make themself comfortable to their heart's content. Get handsy and worship their body to express approval at whatever quantity they decide to put away. You could draw out the experience as long as you'd like by finding fun and relaxing activities that don't require leaving the bed/couch and might be suitable for more snacking.


I try to remind my husband how much I love him soft and fat. Especially when he was fattening up and needed a lot of reassurance this set him at ease about his size. Now it makes his plump little face light up to remind him that I still love how very round he is.
11 months

Soft feeding ideas

I remember I had a lovely chat once with another woman who gushed over how *she* would bring along extra snacks in her bag simply to feed me throughout the day, rather than pack or serve an extra helping at a meal or in my lunch to go. Full-service included with unwrapping it and hand-feeding it to me.

I always found it so cute and nurturing, and something that would absolutely make me melt. I'm not super big on public stuff but that's exactly the kind of soft feeding I'd fill up for real fast!
10 months