Stuffing

Sadistic domme feeder here.

Communication and trust is key. You two need to have boundaries and safewords/gestures established ahead of time. This is for his sake as well as yours.

You can also keep tabs on his fullness by feeling his stomach. If there's no give, there's no room. Belly rubs and massages help digestion and free up space. Feel free to take breaks. That way he can digest and have more room.

You're welcome.

Also, there are different ways you can go about things. My personal favorite is letting my partner work for his stuffings. For example, I'll get a bunch of food - sometimes more than I know he can eat - put it in front of him, and make him earn his stuffing. This usually means some explicitly sexual act, but you can choose something else.

Other times (and this is my partner's favorite thing to do) I'll have him do challenges. Calorie amount, time limits, making him eat everything, I've brought him, stuffing him until he can't move, etc. Sky's the limit. Something I love to do is stuffing him and then making him do something physical. Kneeling, making him touch his toes, walk up the stairs - whatever you like. But don't push too far. Last thing you want is for him to barf it back up.

Unless you're into that. But that would be a huge mess to clean.

I also enjoy teasing, name calling, and degradation. Of course, you'd need to establish boundaries with that. Last thing you want is to call him your greedy slut or piggy bitch and then he gets offended.

I understand. My first feedee got me into BDSM. Didn't vibe with it beforehand.

He was a masochistic sub, and he liked it rough. I was a normie with PTSD. We went slow for my sake so I could discover what I liked, hated, and ambivalent. There were times we had to stop scenes because things got too much for me.

I'm glad he went slow for me. If he hadn't, I'd have sworn off BDSM for all my days. It also helped me to work through some of trauma.

Nothing wrong with doing things out of your comfort zone to please your partner. But don't forget to take care of your needs too.

As a side note, my partner isn't into humiliation. He's into exhibitionism and twisted praise. He knows I love showing off my greedy fat hog. As he puts it, knowing that I'm crazy for him removes the humiliation aspect of it all. Which is great for me because knowing he loves showing himself off makes it more enjoyable for me.

Nice to see that those who choose to explore feedism choose to take a safe approach. This kink/fetish definitely belongs in RACK territory, meaning that there is definite risk and consent is essential.

Big facts.

Big thing here is consent, safe words, and communicate.

Consent is the main key, making sure it's been discussed in advanced and right before. No vague "well they liked it". This is absolutely important.

Discussing things they like versus not (ie a safe word that isn't a safe word or a final safe word that means one more bite). Your partner is the only one that knows how their body will feel, they have to be the one to tell you when they literally can't do anymore.

Communication about what they want to eat, how quickly, what kind of words you use too is a good idea. Maybe your partner likes to get messy, how would you know unless you talk about it at first? Or maybe they like you saying they're a pig? Maybe they don't and want to you encourage them "you're a good girl/boy" etc.

Main thing is as long as you both set clear rules/guidelines, you should be okay.