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Wowthatsbig:
Hi. Hope this gets buried in the forum. Need a place to put my thoughts and any feedback from others is welcome.

Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a while. She's a big name in the community. Pun intended.

It's been on and off for a while and everytime I think we're making progress one of us backslides in the relationship.

She lives 2 hours away.

I work 60 weeks.

She's an amazing person but she's got her own struggles.

Take her struggles and mine and it just doesn't seem to work.

But dear God I want it to work. At least I think I do. I don't know. She's such an excellent person and I've been more vulnerable and intimate with her than anyone I ever have.

I think I'm afraid it isn't working so I quit trying.

And now shes with other people while we still message and hurts.

Thanks for listening.

Wowthatsbig:
Hi. Hope this gets buried in the forum. Need a place to put my thoughts and any feedback from others is welcome.

Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a while. She's a big name in the community. Pun intended.

It's been on and off for a while and everytime I think we're making progress one of us backslides in the relationship.

She lives 2 hours away.

I work 60 weeks.

She's an amazing person but she's got her own struggles.

Take her struggles and mine and it just doesn't seem to work.

But dear God I want it to work. At least I think I do. I don't know. She's such an excellent person and I've been more vulnerable and intimate with her than anyone I ever have.

I think I'm afraid it isn't working so I quit trying.

And now shes with other people while we still message and hurts.

Thanks for listening.

Munchies:
Bro, if you don't feel like it's working, and you can't handle being just friends, then move on.

What benefit does it bring either of your guys to stay in this zombie of a relationship? Just let it die. Are you so afraid to be single? Or are you terrified that you won't find another play partner?

Wowthatsbig:
Hi. Hope this gets buried in the forum. Need a place to put my thoughts and any feedback from others is welcome.

Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a while. She's a big name in the community. Pun intended.

It's been on and off for a while and everytime I think we're making progress one of us backslides in the relationship.

She lives 2 hours away.

I work 60 weeks.

She's an amazing person but she's got her own struggles.

Take her struggles and mine and it just doesn't seem to work.

But dear God I want it to work. At least I think I do. I don't know. She's such an excellent person and I've been more vulnerable and intimate with her than anyone I ever have.

I think I'm afraid it isn't working so I quit trying.

And now shes with other people while we still message and hurts.

Thanks for listening.

Munchies:
Bro, if you don't feel like it's working, and you can't handle being just friends, then move on.

What benefit does it bring either of your guys to stay in this zombie of a relationship? Just let it die. Are you so afraid to be single? Or are you terrified that you won't find another play partner?

Wowthatsbig:
Damn. Zombie of a relationship. That hit the nail on the head. I don't mind being single it's more the fear that I'm unlovable. That's not the right word but I can't think of a better one. Incompatible?