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I'm not really sure where to ask this so if there's a specific category this should go in, please let me know.

Anyway, I'm currently a freshman in college on my second semester. I've recently been getting into feederism and have thought about becoming a feedee/ mutual gainer myself but don't really know just yet. Still figuring myself out and all.

But I was wondering, is there a safe way to actively gain in college without causing issues in say dorms and such or getting around to classes without much hassle? Unfortunately I can't just lay in bed all day with classes and such.

Additionally, I've had worries about what my family would think or say about my weight gain. My family isn't all skinny people but they'd notice of my clothes kept getting tighter and whatnot.

I just don't really know what to do and I was hoping someone had some tips or had been in a similar situation as myself. Any advice is greatly appreciated.

I went from very skinny to fat when I was in college. I found the campus cafeteria most helpful in gaining, but I never lived in the dorms, so I don't know about any unlimited buffets at my school or anywhere else. My only problem was outgrowing student desks, but there were alternatives and since you're already pretty fat (according to your profile), I guess you've dealt with that.

In retrospect, I wish I was able to live in the dorms for a lot of reasons not just the endless food to fatten up on.

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I guess I should clarify some things. My issue with dorms is more or less 2 fold.

1: my bed. Pretty much all my beds at my college are raised in some way with some being lofted. I was worried that if I was gaining that even with stepping stools and such it'd be tough getting in and out of bed.

2: Roommate and such. While I don't currently have a roommate in my space I would probably worry about eating or stuffing my face in my dorm since I'd get subconscious with someone else there who may find it disgusting. I know I shouldn't care about what they think since it's my body, but it'll be on my mind nonetheless.

Getting to classes isn't hard really since I'm used to walking around the campus and I always fit a little walk here and there for some form of movement.

I gained my freshman year of college. Being away from home, other than summer camps, I really let go on the food. I don't know how much I gained, but it must have been around fifteen to twenty pounds.
I didn't have roommate issues, my parents, especially my mom commented, but nothing mean or demeaning.
After college/university is lost a lot of weight with a bout with pneumonia. I kept the weight off and joined the military reserves, serving for twenty five years. I retired from the reserves ten years ago and I have been a casual gainer ever since. I'm now over thirty pounds heavier than when I retired