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Think totally depends on how they gain. I also find if someone is significantly heavier than me (like 200lb+), it can be a little off-putting until I have a chance to catch up. Contrast can be attractive, but too much is a bit odd.

I guess when health starts to take a nose dive. Fantasy world my SO would be huge but mobile and without significant health issues.

It all depends on the maturity of the feeder. Too big isn't a thing for most of us, you'll just get to the point where you're not willing to support or take care of the feedee anymore. Everyone has their limits. If you can respect those limits and see the Feedee as an actual person instead of a toy or a prize, there might be some hope for you.

Most feeders can't do this, they are just dogs chasing cars. Only interested in the gaining process, once that stops, they lose interest and will get anxious to start over with someone else. Not interested in people, just results.

Feedees, make sure you're happy with this before getting started and not just looking for attention from someone else, the chances of being abandoned are high.

Be careful who you interact with no matter how charming or into you they might appear.

When hygiene becomes a issue. If they are unable to clean themselves it's gone a bit far for me.

For me it is all about proportions, so there can be girls that lose proportion very early or some will never have them.
Other can gain in to massiv 400-500 pounds and still keep them.

What I don’t like is when the legs start to loose all shape.

Most impotend is for me is a refined look.
So nails done, hair not super messy with a nice cut, waxed. Nice make up etc

Hilarious 😂

It's all just personal preference. There's no specific weight limit for me. It just comes down to how well they carry the weight. I've seen 600lb women who are very sexy and I've seen 400lb women who don't appeal to me.

My fiance and I have discussed this many many times over the years. His personal preference is very fat without becoming immobile, which aligned with my own weight gain goal and limit. It isn't so much about whether someone is attractive as whether the feedee partner is living the life they want without limitations being too much

It has been and always will be my opinion that those words should never be put together too fat as to me it does not exist the fatter you are the more you would be loved worshipped and adored I need to work on a law that will never put those words together in a sentence

I don't think there's such thing as being too big for me to find someone attractive. That said, when the other person's quality of life has been impacted, my brain switches from feeder mode to caregiver mode.

My limits are the health and wellbeing of the other person. This impact can happen at any size.