Sneederid:
Heavy cream. Look at any post about people’s results with heavy cream: it always mentions super soft jiggly fat and people say they’ve never been so soft even if they’ve been that weight before.
I agree about the heavy cream. Have as much as your digestion can handle about 30 minutes before bed. A bonus is if you have a belly, it'll feel comfortable to sleep letting it hang to the side on the bed, sleeping on your side. Another way to notice growing fatness. And you can go to sleep thinking about getting fatter. I feel heavy cream has added a nice soft rim around my growing apron and live handles. And I'm just softer and more rounded. I had to stop it while traveling for a few months and I didn't get that as much, so I think it is from the heavy cream.
I also find rice pudding helpful.
More estrogen and estrogenic herbs can also help bring on softer fat. But in a man, it might bring on moobs, so that's up to the individual.