Fat experiences

Morbidly A Beast:
That’s so inappropriate at work and it kinda stinks that there’s no repercussions for behavior like that if it’s a client like what’s your boss gonna do drop him? Doubtful.

Otacon0205:
Exactly, given our dynamic at the time, he knew he could got away with it. Or generally I don’t think he realized how inappropriate what he said was. Some people are very oblivious about their fatphobia, they just think it’s the norm unfurtunately.
For this reason I always rejoice when I read that at least in the US we are getting fatter than ever as population every year with more than 40% being overweight, soon we will be the standard.

Munchies:
There's a difference between teasing in love and teasing in disdain. For example, if I call my partner a "gluttonous fatty" it's a term of endearment. He knows I like that aspect of him, so he loves it when I say that to him.

However, if a rando on the street called him that, it wouldn't have the same connotation behind it.

In your situation, this guy was belittling you. It's clear he's fatphobic. And since he's also a client, he was probably on a power trip too. He sounds like he's fun at parties /s

Otacon0205:
Funny thing is that the guys is chubby himself, so I’m like, why are you judging?

Munchies:
There are a lot of bigger people with internalized fatphobia. I wouldn't be shocked if he was insecure about his size. So when he saw you, 40 or so pounds heavier, it was his time to shine.

You also see it a lot from people who are significantly bigger than the people they are fat shaming. The other side of the coin is when they are "concerned" about your wellbeing. There's usually some unsolicited advice mixed in.

You hate to see it.

Otacon0205:
For as much as I would not to, I am afraid is bound to happen. Too many rude people around that think you have to listen to their opinion. As they say, opinions are like an asshole, everybody has one. To counter that, whenever I meet a big person, I always make sure to treat them with the outmost respect and make them feel welcome and confident around me. I strongly believe we should stick together and change public perception.