Submission and domination

I think that androgyny is a better fit that "fat sexual", but that my own two cents.

That said, it's interesting how gaining weight encourages people to explore their gender. Think it's pretty neat.

That’s an interesting thought. It could have to do with fat kind of covering up some of the more obvious physical gender differences. A large fat pad can hide a fat man’s primary sex organ completely and his chest fat can give him larger breasts than some women have. Similarly a fat woman can lose some more pronounced feminine shapes due to sagging fat. This does not make fat people less attractive.

This term is known as "androgyny". In other words, there's a mix of masculine and feminine traits.

I don't see this desire very often from women and femmes. But I see it a lot with the cis male crowd. There are scores of forum posts talking about how much they love how more feminine the look. However, most of these aren't interested in becoming women or being more feminine in general.

This leads me to believe what they are more interested in is androgyny and not femininity. Indeed, once you get a certain size, it's harder to tell what gender you are unless you dress a certain way. It's a size mile marker for a lot of men.

Of course, there are men who have feminization kinks as well as fat kinks. This is an entirely different kettle of fish.

I always love seeing this thread bumped. Do you have any updates? Are you still forcing him to finger his clit?

Well another year has passed more or less, so I can definitely provide an update...

My fella hasn't gained a lot of weight though in the last year. He gained some, but recently he lost some due to illness. But he is still plenty fat at around 450 lbs. His mobility has been reduced a little due to some minor injuries, though, which is the biggest change. He really struggles with reaching his penis at this point, so fingering is the most he can manage usually, and that is uncomfortable for him. So most of his pleasuring comes in two ways:

First, being penetrated. (I'm sure you can use your imagination for this one!)

Second, me performing oral on him, as I've described previously in this thread.

Every single time I kiss (or lick) his clit and he orgasms, I am capturing his cum in my mouth as I described earlier in this thread, and then I feed it back to him. We've done this sooo many times now, it just makes me laugh. He has swallowed so much of his own cum after hundreds and hundreds of these sessions! It's just hilarious! I like to tease him that drinking his own cum is the reason that he's such a fatty and can't seem to stop growing fatter.

There is another fun side effect to this regimen. Because he's gone so long without jerking off the traditional way, the few times I've actually grabbed the shaft of his penis (which is still buried deep in his fupa fat), it drives him absolutely wild. His shaft has become so sensitive to touch, it's crazy!

So as an update, we're still having fun with fatboy's feminization. Every now and then I like to enhance the feeling by shaving his body. He's even worn some makeup a couple of times, and it looks really fabulous on him, I think!

Amazing story, loving the updates

Thanks! I wish I had something entertaining to add, but I don't. We've both been busy with work, so while we still find time to have fun together, lately we've been pretty lazy about it.

Too lazy, apparently. We're both up about 20 lbs in the last couple of months!

A little update, or anecdote for anyone who has been following our journey...

Life gets busy for both me and my fatboy often, and sometimes the time we get to spend together is more about falling asleep together than doing kinky sex stuff.

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Over a week went by and we hadn't had any sex at all - not even any masturbating. So we planned to spend the weekend together alone for some quality time together.

He's supposed to be trying to lose some weight, but that hasn't really worked out, and he is actually at his heaviest weight ever. And his fupa is thicker and puffier than ever! It's kind of amazing how much blubber has to be pushed out of the way to get to his big, fat "clit" now.

After a morning full of teasing and titillating him, I told him to lie back and lift his belly back. Then I pushed his fupa back until I could see his clit, and I started to play with it. First, I just exhaled slowly on it, and just doing that made him groan slightly. I started to kiss it, then lick it, gradually driving him more and more wild. Then I took the tip into my mouth...

I am not sure if it was because he had a lot of pent-up energy or what, but after just a few seconds, he started to come! I took it into my mouth, as usual. But this time, it was different - he came, and came, and came! It was filling up my mouth, which was way more than usual! I actually ended up swallowing a little myself!

When he finally finished ejaculating, I got up and crawled up the bed, and kissed him, letting the all of his jizz fall into his mouth. His eyes showed he, too, was surprised by how much fluid there was! He swallowed it like a good little cumslut, although he sputtered a little, lmao!

Just thought I would share - it was a pretty neat thing! We're still not sure what generated all of that fluid, other going so long between ejaculations. But I think we should try again and see if we can duplicate it.

First of all, this is a wonderful thread! 😂

Im really uncomfortable with cum shallowing, but i enjoyed very much all the rest!

So, ive seen this term being thrown a bit lately on Tumblr, "Lard locked", which refers to the situation of a feedee's genitals being completely burried under their fat pad!

Id definetely love to be fattened up to that point, no doubt! O.o

The other thing i wanted to say, in response to the mention of androgyne, is that i think maybe some people are into some kind of... I dont know what term to use but, act like child subs? For example i really really love being called "good boy", or "fat boy". It makes me feel like i can be an irresponsible feedee who can just eat, cum and sleep all the time, preferably even on the request of a hypothetical mommy dome feeder girlfriend who will take all responsibility, but also control with it, away from me!

Like... I dont get the same kick at all from being called "fat guy"!