Submission and domination

Eeeeeehhhhhh

It's not so much that the women in this space tend to be more submissive. It's just that the non-submissive ones don't tend to stick around. A good chunk of the men on here seem keen on making every woman they come across a sub. I'm a domme and I deal with this all the time.

As for the breeding thing, a lot of feedists also have alvinolagnia (aka a belly fetish). So there's a lot of overlap with bloating, vore, and pregnancy. And pregnancy also tends to overlap with breeding and lactation.

On that note, not every female feedist that's into breeding is a sub either. Some are dommes, switches, or neither.

So while you're more likely to find sub feedees with breeding kinks in places like FF, it's not a good representation of the group as a whole.

True, true. Plus, you are forgetting about the very sizable femdom side of the breeding fetish.

And it's not just the doms. It's the subs too. They tend to be asolutely insufferable and gross. I've seen many a woman choose to leave rather than deal with the rampant harassment, disrespect, and entitlement.

Honestly, I'd have peaced out within my first 4 months on the site if I wasn't also a sadist who gets off on torturing creeps.

But I digress.

Except that's not even true.

The majority of people on here - male, female, and otherwise - are here to be horny, to find love, or to bond with like-minded kinksters. And while there are women on here trying to make money and men being cave-dwelling troglodytes, they are not indicative of the whole.

What's going on is that the cave-dwelling troglodytes end up driving away a good chunk of women and even some of the men. I know a lot of men who've been sexually harassed by these idiots because they didn't read their profiles and assumed them to be female. A good chunk of these victims will leave.

When it comes to women, we have to be guarded for safety. Some stop interacting with men completely. Others become disinterested in engaging in kink sexually or romantically.

Some women are here to make money, but that's not the full picture. Some want to get fat but cannot afford to do so. So they get sponsors and happily eat for them. Some are content creators or hustlers happy to sell their kinky services for a fee. Both groups also engage with kink space outside of financial reasons. For example, I see forum posts from time to time from various content creators engaging with the site like a normal user. They are all delightful.

Some women on here are only here for the money. They are in the minority. And while they are a pain in the ass for men, they aren't any better towards their female counterparts.

Meanwhile, your average guy on here is just some guy. He may not be the most enlightened person, but he isn't trying to hurt anyone, either. Of those that don't get chased off by the cave-dwelling troglodytes, some will leave due to catfish (often other men pretending to be women), scammers (some of which are men or a network of people), and users. Some will become cave-dwelling troglodytes because they do not or refuse to understand why women are guarded and jaded.

Everyone else is just here for a good time. Some people of all genders are also trying to make the community a better place for all.

It's good to get out of your comfort zone and talk to people. You know what they say about assumptions.

I always appreciate hearing Munchies perspective on things.

To answer your question, I'm usually a sub (sometimes switch), and I understand the breeding desire. To explain the breeding part, I think it's the thought of feeling being filled and growing a big pregnant belly. My pregnancy days are over, but pregnancy sex was the best with heaviness nearing down and other changes. Yes and then there would be breast-feeding with extra big breasts.

I think in general being very fat as a woman goes along with being pushed into. Just as a mentality. I see a big fat man as bulky and substantial who would do the pushing. So that is a physical aspect of male dominance and female submission. For male subs and female dommes, you'd have to ask them.

For me, dominance/submission, BDSM, gaining/feedee, and adult lactation came late in life. I was introduced to BDSM. I've been attracted to big men most of my life, but it wasn't until I saw porn with an immobile obese woman that I was strongly attracted to gaining and becoming obese, and then to being fed as a feedee. Since then, it's been a learning experience and a mindset change. Being a feedee does go along with being submissive in BDSM, especially in stuffing and funnel feeding, and other types of filling some of us are into.

I have had major, MAJOR issues with subs/male feedees on here. Not painting all with the same brush, but some of them can be terribly entitled, yes. One of them body shamed me, even after I said that totally wasn't okay with me. I get a bit nervous being on site again.

That's awful they body shamed you, and the fact they knew knowing your not ok with it

I believe you. That said, from what I can see of you, you are a stunning woman. Anyone who says otherwise is an idiot.

You have confused breeding kinks with the biological urge to reproduce. You have also confused having a breeding kink with power play.

Breeding kinks are all about having sex with a chance to be pregnant. It often coincides with a pregnancy kink, but they are two different things. It's super common to be into breeding and not pregnancy.

It's also super common to enjoy breeding without the power play or for the person being bred to be the dominant one.