Aliaspace10:
Hello
I have always been chubby and I have self-consciousness until now, I have tried all the diets to lose weight since I was very little, today I accept and I love my fat and flabby body. would like to gain even more weight but I'm afraid that my family and friends will comment and put me on a diet (this has already happened) How I could gain weight without them noticing?
Munchies:
Friendly reminder that you are 18 now. They can't make you do anything.
Aliaspace10:
But I still live with my parents
Munchies:
Still an adult. And as such, they have no legal right to your bodily autonomy.
That said, I highly recommend securing income so you can buy your own food if possible. That way, they can't harp on you for eating up all their food.
Echo this... Part time job, freelancing, Up work... It *IS* reasonable that you expect to contribute to expenses you incur. It is *NOT* someone else's right to demand your body look a certain way.
That said, I do understand. And realistically, it is a balance. What do you find exciting and hot? What do you find reasonable for your daily life and budget? How much judgment are you willing to tolerate? Are you ready to face it? Know wherever you are in your journey is okay.
But if you are ready to take the leap, good for you. Your body only belongs to you, even if you find the love of your life. Wishing you the very best.
